Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

I am almost 19, my family has been splitting apart since i was young but now its practically official. my mother is far away my dad is always working my brother is always with his gf somewhere... and i am left alone. Things that i held in high regards once mean nothing to me now. i dont value things the way i used to. I have worked for years to have honor, integrity, and strength. but somewhere society has found those things to be repelling and unwanted, and not wanting to be around these things.. my friends have left for colleges and i have nothing to turn to.. my ex gf left me for her ex and played me for a fool for 9 months, i have joined the marines.. but what is happening to me? why am i feeling like this?

2007-02-04 16:25:02 · 16 answers · asked by U.S MARINE GREG 2 in Family

who belives in love who thinks everyone should give it a chance and just who belives in it!!!

2007-02-04 16:22:52 · 10 answers · asked by ASHLEE 1 in Singles & Dating

So, my boyfriend and I have only been dating for 2 weeks (he is 16 and I am almost 15). Today, we watched the Super Bowl together with his mom and older sister(also my best friend). The entire time we were cuddling on the couch and teasing each other. Then my dad called at ten saying he would be there in thirty seconds. I pull my hoodie over my t-shirt, put on my shoes, say thank you to his mom for letting me come. As I walk towards the door, my boyfriend says good bye and pulls me into his arms. At first I thought it was just a hug, but soon I realized that we were kissing.

Now comes the confusing part: I have never kissed anyone before. And I must say, it came as a surprise. However, I'm not sure if he was trying to make out with me or is just a forceful kisser.

I need some tips. I have never done this before and I don't know what to do. Argh, this is a dumb question, but the person I usually ask these questions is his older sister. No way am I putting her through this. Thanks.

2007-02-04 16:21:48 · 23 answers · asked by Kali 2 in Singles & Dating

OK, I don't know what to do. My wife has never had much interest in a sex life with me. I've tried everything I know and I've never had a relationship that didn't have a healty sex life, but this one is desolate. I was lucky if we had sex once every month and a half. Now, though, it's been 5 months and nothing. I've tried talking to her about it, but she just says she'll try to do better and then nothing changes. Whenever I try to initiate it she just pulls away. Don't say divorce...not an option.

2007-02-04 16:21:20 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to all the girls, where do looks rank on ur list of must have qualities in a guy

2007-02-04 16:21:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

your mother is fierse,your teacher is dum,so your gf should be cute,I mean living,women need to be living not dying.

2007-02-04 16:20:49 · 1 answers · asked by Hui Meng C 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 16:20:14 · 20 answers · asked by ngocgolf 1 in Family

some one rang me on my mobile phone i want to know who this person is without having to call the person. I want to know if there is anyway that i can do a search on this mobile number to find out who had called me

2007-02-04 16:19:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-04 16:19:09 · 21 answers · asked by sickmates 1 in Singles & Dating

Met great guy on Personals and we corresponded for 2 months and now he has to stay overseas for another 2 - 3 yrs and does not want any serious relationship but at first he did, should i still correspond with him or forget about him because he is lying to me or is he just not interested in me and is using this as an excuse on me? Seemed to always be a very honest person so far.

2007-02-04 16:18:45 · 4 answers · asked by jebbie4u2006 1 in Singles & Dating

Please serious answers.. i want opinions on this..

2007-02-04 16:17:40 · 10 answers · asked by B. B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have asked this question before, a while back, but I'm still having problems and need some more help.

My husband and I have been married for a little over a year now, and nothing is like how it was before we were married. Everything's changed. Example? Sex has gone from every day, to MAYBE once a week, NO talking whatsoever unless he thinks it is conversation that will lead to sex or if he's telling his AWFUL AWFUL vulgar jokes which he knows I hate, every restaurant has to be his choice, he'll say "Honey, you pick this time" but when I do pick, he'll just say "I don't like that place, how about this one?" even though he knows "that one" is my LEAST favorite. Movies, same thing. Right now he's playing his stupid xbox {again} with his friend online, but just minutes ago he was "too tired" to do anything with me. The list goes on..I don't understand, I don't ever nag at him about these things, I just get it all out on here, so it's not like I'm a b itch or anything.

2007-02-04 16:15:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-04 16:15:26 · 11 answers · asked by bahareh b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so im on my nexopia and I say to my girlfriend, hey would you like my password so you can go on and write a message on my profile. she did so but then when im over at my friends house about 2 hours later i get a message saying "What does this mean "is she single"(i had asked my friend josh if a girl was single so my friend luke could date her)" so from that i know shes been reading all my personal emails, i dont have anything to hide but yet she read them! to me that seems like an insult. then i ask her if she trusts me 100% and she tells me about 90%. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship right? can you guys help me out, i told her i would think about it overnight and i need some advice.

2007-02-04 16:15:02 · 7 answers · asked by Dust T 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't want pickup lines that actually work or anything, just something that will make me LMAO. thanks.

2007-02-04 16:14:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 16:14:27 · 9 answers · asked by slug 1 in Singles & Dating

Tonight my boyfriend, my son and I went to our friends house to watch the game. Well our friends brother happened to be there which is no big deal because he always goes over there with his wife on game nights, but his wife didnt go this night because she just had a baby, anyway so were there watching the game and it wasnt going the way we hoped ,so my boyfriend started to dose off. I looked over to him and saw him falling asleep and realized everyone else had left the room. The brother was staring at me which was weird because he barely even talks to me. So I looked away really quickly , and then looked back, and he was still starring at me. So I looked at him and he gave me that look. And if youre a girl you know what kind of look I talking about. I couldnt believe him. His wife just had a baby a week ago. What I feel bad about though is that I didnt tell my boyfriend. To me its not a big enough deal to tell him but Im not sure. I need some advice.

2007-02-04 16:13:24 · 5 answers · asked by Princess Rach 3 in Singles & Dating

So there is this guy at Starbucks. He looks like his 18 or 19. I'm 15. I really like him, I think he is one of the first guys that has ever talked to me whithout knowing one of my friends or something like that. He is really cute, does corny magic tricks and gives me a hard time about doing homework on super bowl sunday. I've known him for a little more than a week. The only time I ever see him is at the starbucks that he works at. How should I go about getting him to like me? or is it possable he already does like me? (wow thats optamistic) Thanks.

2007-02-04 16:12:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay when someone cheats on you and you find out.Whats the first thing your goning to say ? why. why would you do this to me? and the guy or girl says i don't know . well what i say is that you chose to cheat i mean you could have stoped right? i mean come on if you trult loved someone the one your with why ? i say you chose to do this you could have stoped . it what you do . and what you and what you don't do. im i right about this . do you agree or disagree? and why you do oh you don't ( i have been cheated on before and this is what i told the guy)

2007-02-04 16:11:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to know how many people are on the grooms side at the wedding and how many people are on the brides side. like brides maids and the equivalant to that for the groom

2007-02-04 16:11:48 · 7 answers · asked by Sailor 1 in Weddings

i broke up with my gf on this Friday after we've been going out for about half a year i just can't seem to get her out of my head any tips?

2007-02-04 16:11:16 · 16 answers · asked by Landon 4 in Singles & Dating

V day is on wednesday and tomorow is monday so would it be a good idea to ask a girl on monday to go out with me on V Day?

2007-02-04 16:11:13 · 13 answers · asked by .......... 4 in Singles & Dating

So, my boyfriend and I have only been dating for 2 weeks (he is 16 and I am almost 15). Today, we watched the Super Bowl together with his mom and older sister(also my best friend). The entire time we were cuddling on the couch and teasing each other. Then my dad called at ten saying he would be there in thirty seconds. I pull my hoodie over my t-shirt, put on my shoes, say thank you to his mom for letting me come. As I walk towards the door, my boyfriend says good bye and pulls me into his arms. At first I thought it was just a hug, but soon I realized that we were kissing.

Now comes the confusing part: I have never kissed anyone before. And I must say, it came as a surprise. However, I'm not sure if he was trying to make out with me or is just a forceful kisser.

I need some tips. I have never done this before and I don't know what to do. Argh, this is a dumb question, but the person I usually ask these questions is his older sister. No way am I putting her through this. Thanks.

2007-02-04 16:11:08 · 2 answers · asked by Kali 2 in Singles & Dating

If u think a husband/wife lied about something a yr ago is it possible to still find out the truth a yr or so or 2 yrs later or is a yr or 2 to long to even find it out.

2007-02-04 16:09:39 · 12 answers · asked by gina l 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and this guy have gone out 3 times on what i call dates. First one he cooked for me at this apartment, 2nd one we had dinner and a movie, and 3rd we rented a movie and watched it at his place. I like him but hoping he likes me back. To me these are dates but idk because he hasn't even hugged me when i left. We talk alot when we are with each other, but i called him today and he didn't answer but idk if he was busy or what. I don't want to ask him to his face if we are dating or what because i dont want him to think im stupid, or get freaked out that i thought that so we won't hang out anymore. So what do you think are we in like the "talking phase" of our relationship are we are we dating with not being steady or our we just hanging out and having fun?

2007-02-04 16:09:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been dating my boyfriend for 3 and a half years and we plan on getting married in a couple of years. Ever since day one taht we started dating, there has always been drama! i feel like i am still in high school! girls want to fight me and spread rumors and all this immature stuff and its really bugging me. im not sure if i should just shake it off and continue to date my boyfriend or to just break up with him becuse of all the drama. weve evn broken up a few times becuase of some of this stupid drama! what should i do>? i know im a solider for putting up with it for 3 years, but sometimes, im sick and tired of being sick and tired............a person can only take so much....

2007-02-04 16:08:49 · 4 answers · asked by kim k 1 in Singles & Dating

I loved my guy friend more than a friend. I recently told him about it. But I said that "I used to love you". I said that because he was being an asshole. He doesn't know how to treat his friends right and with respect. By the way I just sent it through mail. He knows I am so pissed. The thing is he used to be good, down-to-earth and sweet. But lately he has turn to become a loser. That's why I've been holding on this long cause I'm hoping that the normal him would come back. I guess I was wrong, he was getting worse and worse each day. He only cares about himself. Now, what's left to do? I lied, I realize that I still do love him. But I know and my friends keep telling me to forget about him and move on cause he is a jerk. What should I do? How could I move on?

2007-02-04 16:08:29 · 2 answers · asked by fmg_1981 1 in Singles & Dating

we need to start a fan club.

2007-02-04 16:07:04 · 17 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 16:06:54 · 24 answers · asked by Era S 1 in Friends

I mean I'd like to be freshly showered and shaven so should I just get on it and hope he comes over?

2007-02-04 16:06:10 · 8 answers · asked by wastedlife 1 in Singles & Dating