okay when someone cheats on you and you find out.Whats the first thing your goning to say ? why. why would you do this to me? and the guy or girl says i don't know . well what i say is that you chose to cheat i mean you could have stoped right? i mean come on if you trult loved someone the one your with why ? i say you chose to do this you could have stoped . it what you do . and what you and what you don't do. im i right about this . do you agree or disagree? and why you do oh you don't ( i have been cheated on before and this is what i told the guy)
2007-02-04 16:11:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honey, don't worry about cheaters, they get what they deserve.......let em go, they are the low lifes of the universe
2007-02-04 16:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it has alot to do with the company they keep and how much they play with temptation. The best of men have been known to fall because they were in the right place at the right time. Personally all the men I have come to know in life I would say that cose to 99% of them did cheat. The 1% would probably be my brother in-law but even then I can't say for sure that given the opportunity he would turn that down?
2016-03-29 05:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. I think it is a contradition to say that you love someone then turn around and cheat on them! I think that if things are bad enough for you to turn to someone else then you should just end the relationship. If you don't, then I think that you are either weak, or you are using that person. Yes, you are in control what you do, you are no a puppet or a zombie, you cheat, then you must face the consiquences, and saying "I don't know" is not going to help your situation.
2007-02-04 16:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by pan2fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think people make mistake we are only human and if you are really in love you should give him a second chance tell him look if you want to be with me you cant cheat on me and if it happens again then he needs to be dumped cause he doesnt love you i gave my boyfriend a second chance after six months of going out and now we have been together seven years and have a two year old and a good life but its really hard to forget about what they did but if u love them you have to at least try
2007-02-04 16:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by kaveeona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yess if he really loved you then he wouldin cheat on you so tell him if you wanna cheat then your free to do so but on your own because if there alone then they are free to do as they wish , just think whats best for the one whos been cheated on say its over i need better not a player.
2007-02-04 16:23:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT was his choice. He could have said no. He choose to say yes and now has to pay the price. Past behavior is a good indicator of future behavior so kick him to the curb and find another.
2007-02-04 16:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree 100 percent on that i mean come on a person can't cheat on their lover then turn around and lie about it that is so cruel in my openion..and i know i'm right cuz i've been down that road too many times to count..
2007-02-04 16:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by geostrom b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all cheaters are selfish. They are only thinking of themselves and pleasing themselves. If they cheat once they have the track record of cheating again. Dump them and move on.
2007-02-04 16:19:06 · answer #8 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they could have stopped. But have you ever cheated? If you have think of what your reasons where. Sometimes we dont think and just have fun.
I thinking cheating is unacceptable - because I have been cheated on.
2007-02-04 16:15:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. If they truely loved you, they wouldn't hurt you. I hope you find someone that will respect you and not cheat.
ps: Nice avatar hat! (we have the same one)
2007-02-04 16:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by xxxcerealfordinnerxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋