Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

has anyone had a bad past and had a certain someone heal the pain and come into there life and just make there hell dissapear like a hero or someone you thank god for everyday of your life?


no mean answers please!!!

2007-02-04 16:05:38 · 6 answers · asked by ASHLEE 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy in my class and I think I like him.

He usually sit little far from where I sit in the class but last time
he came behind my seat and we had a chance to talk.
On Sunday, the class held a required field trip but you can miss
this time and attend another one later.
When I asked him if he's coming, he said maybe but I told him
I'm coming and he said he will come too (because he said he
has to come sooner or later).

So on Sunday, we met at the field trip and after we were dismissed, he asked me to go eat. So we went to eat.
The conversation went smooth and fun, but he asked nothing
about my romantic life such as if I have a boyfriend or not.
He didn't ask my number either.
Then at the casher, I offered to pay too but he said don't worry
about it and paid the bill. On the way to the subway station, he said if it was a Friday or Saturday we could go to a bar.
When we arrived at the station, I said it was so nice to see him
and kissed on his cheek.

2007-02-04 16:05:12 · 7 answers · asked by happy-angel 3 in Singles & Dating

3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out. Will he ever ask me to "hangout" again, what do ya think?

2007-02-04 16:04:27 · 6 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy and me have had 3..outings outside of work 1) he cooked for me at his place, 2) dinner than a movie 3) rented a movie watched at his place. He is 25 and I am 20. I'm really starting to like him, since ive seen this other side to him. He is such a gentlemen to me and always if he buys something he will go through my check out line to purchase it. yesterday though he brought in his sister and he came up on the other side of the count er and said this is my sister and my manager said hi and shook her hand i said hi, but didnt' shake her hand cuz my manager was between us. they went around the store but when he left he didn't check out through my line..and didnt' even say bye..but i noticed this guy that was with him (i think his father) was watching me work while he was checking out. I know i had a long line at my register and it was crazy busy but i don't know if that was a sign or not? what do you think?

2007-02-04 16:04:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 16:04:03 · 11 answers · asked by Jama21 1 in Singles & Dating

any girls out there im me. football87654321 is both my yahoo and aim

2007-02-04 16:03:47 · 1 answers · asked by football87654321 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy I like. We are both 27. I stayed the night with him and he didn't try anything. But he said he would like if I came to see him. We slept beside each other, he didnt try to kiss me or anything. Just held me. He didn't even get my # or give me his. We are friends who all know each other through other mutual firends.. So I figure he will find my # if he wants to call me.

I like him more than hooking up for a one nighter. But I don't know how into me he is?
What do I do?

2007-02-04 16:02:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal, my friend didn't go to a crew benefit she was going to help out at because of an argument she got into with her dad. Now she's mad because her team mates didn't CALL HER and ask her to come to the benefit or at least inquire as to why she wasn't there. I was the only one who did and at the request of her dad who wanted me to convince her to come. I personally didn't want her there because having her there in a bad mood would've made things stressful. Is she justified to be angry at my team mates? Or is she being self-centered?

2007-02-04 16:02:51 · 11 answers · asked by Maureen 2 in Friends

and why?

2007-02-04 16:02:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 16:02:15 · 17 answers · asked by dancingwiththestars 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Has your wife gained 30 pounds or more since you got married and had kids? How do you feel about it? How do you handle it? Has it affected your sex life or how you feel about her? Answer honestly!

2007-02-04 16:01:27 · 10 answers · asked by missy s 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I"m in college. l've liked this guy for awhile, but he has an 'intrust' he met last semester in his math class. The 'intrust' keeps blowing him off unless theres pot or booz invloved. But he keeps messing with me. We ended up having a huge make out session the othe night after a movie with a bunch of friends. The next day we shared a few kissed but we didnt talk about the night before. what do i do? How should i take this? is he messing with me?

2007-02-04 16:01:25 · 1 answers · asked by Neko 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I have 6 days til my girlfriends birthday. Her birthday is the 11th and shes turning 15. I am already 15.

I've been really busy with school and my basketball team and then my soccer team. I dont get to spend alot of time with her because of it.

But the thing is Im running out of time to get her a birthday present and I dont know what to get her.

I have a $50 money limit cause thats all I can afford and my mom wont let me order anyting off the computer.

Girls I need your help and fast. I need some ideas on what to get her. PLEASE HELP ME!

2007-02-04 16:01:23 · 8 answers · asked by xhellsxlilxangelx 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 16:01:00 · 6 answers · asked by leila m 1 in Family

2007-02-04 16:00:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-04 16:00:33 · 3 answers · asked by gabrielkmn 1 in Singles & Dating

nobody wants me as more than a friend and i hate myself for that. what could possibly be so wrong with me that nobody would want me? ive never had a boyfriend, and im ashamed of that. i feel left behind, and rejected. ive never been kissed, or on a date. I want a guy to love me, to want to be near me, to hold me tight and never let go. i want somebody to actually care about me as more than a friend. i mean even my mom didnt want me, and she still doesnt. nobody understands me and they never will. I cant cry in public because to me it shows that im weak, so i always fight back the tears that are in my eyes, and HE still doesnt notice me. im losing a friend over a guy, and i might even lose him, i dont want to fight over a guy, but she does. I dont wanna lose either one of them. my life just really sucks right now nad this is where i come to escape the world and my life. i feel like i can tell u guys anything and not be judged. i really need that right now, u have no idea how much.

2007-02-04 16:00:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am dating this guy and I really, really like him, but he told me he wants at least 5 hours of s_x everyday. He has told me this several times. I am extremely attracted to him, but everytime he mentions s_x, I find myself shutting down. I find his quota unreasonable, impractical, and it creates unnecessary tension in a new relationship. No, we have not done it. What do you think of this?

2007-02-04 15:59:08 · 22 answers · asked by Hanna S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 15:59:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance wants to wear a zoot suit to the wedding, but I have no idea how to work that into a theme without it going "mobster." I am having a fall wedding and want to go with fall leaves and stuff. Should I just compromise and go with a romantic evening theme? Ugh...

2007-02-04 15:58:26 · 9 answers · asked by BellyRubz 3 in Weddings

Why are people rude to young mothers? I'm 20 and I have a 2 year old, and am due in a week. A lot of 20 year olds might have trouble financially with two kids but I am financially secure. I have money set aside for both kids colleges, and love spending time with my little one. I just grew up faster then most of my friends. I have never been interested in partying/etc. We don't plan on having any more for a long time...

How should I respond to rude comments? I get them all of the time and it drives me nuts. I'm usually too shocked to come up with anything in response. You wouldn't believe how mean some people can be...

"Is he the daddy to BOTH?"
"What kind of birth control are you going to get on after this one?"

And theres much much more... *sigh*

2007-02-04 15:58:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been at that point for a long time. I am so sick of the games and how they drag my self esteem into the dirt. How they mess with my head and use my kids as tools to manipulate me and get me to do things their way. They are the only people that can actually make me feel bad about who I am and my life.... and I don't want to be part of that family again until I feel ready (if ever)... but I can't seem to let go of them... to walk out of their lives. And as long as I am in their lives I feel like I am a bad person... I have set bounderies. I have talked to them. I have tried being rude to them to push them away. It affects me, my parenting skills, my life. How do I get the courage to walk away???

2007-02-04 15:58:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

has anyone done that and soon found out that you are dating the guy with the name it sent you?

2007-02-04 15:57:15 · 5 answers · asked by LoVeLy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 15:57:11 · 5 answers · asked by sazzyaquarianchick 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 15:55:44 · 16 answers · asked by Pumpkin 2 in Weddings

so hear it goes ive be going out with this girl for 4.5 months and its ben amazing. we havegreat mental and phtsical conections. then about 3 days ago she said that she needed to consintrate no herself for a while. for the first 2 days i wrote like 5 full pages of how i feel abought her i dident even i i could write that good. so i gave her the notes and once she was done reading them she called me and i told her i realy want to get back together cuz all i can think about is her. she seemed to be wanting to get back together but i think i need to convince her more. she dosent want to go back on her word but she said that she really wanted me back but just couldent do it cuz lots of people knew. and she has done it in past relationships. im going to ask her if she just wants to take a break what else can i do to get my favorate person back any good ideas of what i can do to help her out cuz i just want to be thier for her when she is troubled so yea help me out people cuz crying sucks

2007-02-04 15:54:54 · 13 answers · asked by kkkk53564367 2 in Singles & Dating

Not stupid pick up lines but just what is the best thing to say to a women to get her to talk to you at a bar/club

2007-02-04 15:54:46 · 31 answers · asked by killinitt 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 15:54:27 · 10 answers · asked by susie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-04 15:53:26 · 2 answers · asked by alvesh627 2 in Singles & Dating

If someone ends it by phone and says that they're really busy & don't have time for a relationship is it called getting dumped?( Also, they ended it this after one month of dating only.) But either way when someone ends it, no matter how nice they do, the other person still gets dumped right???

2007-02-04 15:53:02 · 8 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating