3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out. Will he ever ask me to "hangout" again, what do ya think?
2007-02-04 16:04:27 · 6 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did he rush the date by taking me home after the movie cuz he doesn't like me OR was it cuz he felt awkward?
2007-02-04 16:04:56 · update #1
he remembered why he dumped you in the first place
2007-02-04 16:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello there. I want to share with you something.
My exboyfriend used to act on impulse chasing me and wanting me back and when we get back together, he would break up with me again because he would say that he realized he really isn't that ready and we'd really work much better as just friends. Then he will want me back again. I don't know if he's confused or he just sees me as a toy but definitely it has ruined everything between us although it was a potentially good relationship. Insecurities and jealousies crushed it down. I learned to accept it wasn't mean to be and I learned to trust God that if he wills for us to be together then He will orchestrate events for it to happen when the time is right for us both. Im not saying this is what will happen to both of you but i just want to warn you from the same pattern and cycle that I let myself into. Just be careful that's all but open minded at the same time that he must really have realized what you're value is to him.
I don't what God has planned for both of you. But looks like he wants a second chance. Maybe he isn't really rushing on the date, if he didn't enjoy it then he wouldn't tell you that he wants to see you every once in a while. You have the opportunity to see how much he's changed but at the same time guard your feelings and your heart. Watch out for his consistency and how eager he is to want you back.
2007-02-04 16:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by terra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If friendship isn't more important than sex than you have a hollow relationship. Sex is temporary no matter how great it feels. Being able to trust and commincate on the same level is worth waiting for. It's like cake, it's still good without the frosting, sex is like the frosting. Theres always more cake than frosting and that should be ok. Afterall can you really spend more than a couple of hours eating frosting? I know that sounds whack, but think about it.
It's really true. Bake him a cake instead! Hahahaha.
Good luck girl, and trust yourself that your worth more than just sex.
2007-02-04 16:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by Michael G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you - you would be married and he could have sex with you.
RIGHT? what is he waiting for?
Drop him, he is stringing you along. He doesnt know it but he is.
He can have sex with girls and not you. So what did he choose?
Drop him and find a good respectful man. HE is 26 - he should have his stuff together about you already.
2007-02-04 16:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you care. You should only be interested in a man who wants a virgin and is a virgin himself. If you can save yourself for marriage so can a man. I applaud you for your stance, but dont worry about what an ex wants. Worry about yourself, and finding the right one.
2007-02-04 16:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants SEX.
Trust me. Whenever a person can't get what they want it becomes a challenge.
Save yourself for the right man. Date him, talk to him, see him etc.. but if you feel pressured, walk away.
2007-02-04 16:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋