Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

Ok so last Thursday I was out with this girl and told her I had a huge crush on this girl. She was mad that i hadnt told her earlier and that I was ridiculous for not asking her out earlier. We ended up that night making out and fooling around a bit. So I say that we should go out Saturday and she says ok. Then we just both slept together (no sex)
So I call her on Friday to see if we were still on Saturday left a message she didnt call back.

So I called her today and still no answer didnt leave a message.

This girl was a pretty good friend and now I dont know what to do should I keep trying to call her, send a text or what. We were both drinking that night but no of us where too wasted.

2007-02-04 15:52:53 · 4 answers · asked by Ski_Bum 3 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy and last night he holded my hand and later i asked him do he like me and he said u know i do and i said it was hard to till and he said when im home i think about u or even when im home i think of u i dont rember witch one he said ,so do he actual like me ?
Im a girl and 18

2007-02-04 15:52:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love this man,he had a 1 year old daughter,so with me,im separated and so with him,he loves me alot,the mother of his daughter always txting me that the man i loved will not stay with me longer,she said that his using me....i confronted him about that and said its not true...im confused now,do i have to give up and tell him that he should settle with his his ex?????.....for the past few weeks.....im trying to give way,and my love to him slowly fading.....

2007-02-04 15:51:52 · 7 answers · asked by gwyn_41 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-04 15:51:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yrs ago, I was in love with this woman. I knew her for years before anything serious happened. Our kids played together for years. We got along great, she was seeing some guy at the time. I asked her if she wasn't going out with "Beavis", would she go out with me? She said she definitely would. Years went by, I moved away, she called me to tell me they broke up. Helped her move into her own place, and after a few months we got together. We stayed together about a year. In the beginning, she had trust issues with me as her ex cheated on her. No big deal to me, I'll show her she can trust me. A year went by and she was still not trusting me because of ex. I had enough of it and left the scene. Here's the question,,,,she told me many times that I was "perfect" and have been waiting for a guy like me all her life. If that was the case, why no trust? We had a great relationship, no fighting, did things together, kids got along great, one big happy "family" why no trust me?

2007-02-04 15:51:04 · 25 answers · asked by jasrlhals 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it a good idea to make up a girlfriend to make some one jealous?

2007-02-04 15:50:44 · 17 answers · asked by B to the E 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 15:49:57 · 10 answers · asked by aldo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to the punchline when we all know the same joke. This really makes her mad. Should I pretend that I never heard the joke? Please help me out.

2007-02-04 15:49:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out.

2007-02-04 15:49:20 · 11 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

A small group of 4 (including myself) are best friends and have been since we were in Kindergarten, and actually we are more like sisters. Now at 35ish we get together once a year to celebrate our friendship. I would like to get gifts for all four of us that are the same, but represent our friendship (a ring, neclace or bracelet?) Something subtle, yet classy, that isn't showy, but possibly something that only means something to the four of us. I have found jewelry that is usually for two people, so any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

2007-02-04 15:49:20 · 5 answers · asked by infamous_emberella 1 in Friends

Well today I went to a old friends house and met her nephew also my age and we talked and I think we have the same feelings for each other as we did before I moved.For many reasons I would ask him out but we have known each other for our whole life NO JOKE.We grew up together.We liked each other before but when my mom and dad split up I went to a different school but we know everything there is to know about each other.I just want to know if I should give it more time and see him some more as friends or ask him out right now?

2007-02-04 15:49:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just turn 20 and my girl friend is 19 we been dating for 9 month. when we started to go out she told me that she was a virgin, after the second month i found out that she is not a virgin and she told me she's been with one person one time when she was 15, after we been togater for 9 month i just found out that she is been with 4 other guys. she is been with a guy that she only knew for a month and a guy she knew for 4 month and another guy that she knew for 2 month and another who she dated for a while. she is a realy nice girl that says she is deeply in love with me and she keeps on crying and tells me to trust her. The thing that pisses me off the most is that she says that she never enjoyed it, but she keep on missing around(each guy that she is been with wasnt more than 3 times). im in love with her, but i dont know if i can trust her? i love her but every time i look at her i think of everything she has done in the past and it makes me crayz. what should i do??

2007-02-04 15:48:54 · 2 answers · asked by help me 1 in Singles & Dating

Part 1
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ah2JIf7hCBSP2aR0DZsFG9vB7BR.?qid=20070126041110AAMXjvf&cp=2&tp=3#all-answers

Part 2

So I've decided to take the job offer.Problem is my husband is insisting he go with me against the doctor's advice and I don't know what to do.How am I supposed to manage a new job and a sick husband?How do I convince him to stay with people who have time to take care of him?

2007-02-04 15:48:31 · 19 answers · asked by Possessed By Love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

On a first date since my divorce should I tell her that she is the second girl that I have dated "counting my ex of 15 years". I will be a little nervous and feel that it would help break the ice=) Also is dinner and a movie to much on the first date?

2007-02-04 15:47:27 · 11 answers · asked by shawclint 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 15:47:11 · 19 answers · asked by susie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i feel that its wrong to lie to oneself and continue being in a relationship. i broke up with my first boyfriend mainly because his room smelled like a mix of *** and curry powder. it wasnt the only reason. i broke up with my second boyfriend because he got boring once we started dating, the conversations werent interesting and i felt he didnt want me anymore. it would be silent on the phone and he never made and effort to come see me. im also very picky about who i "talk to". i became uninterested in a guy because he was dorky , by dorky i mean imature and annoying. i also stopped "talking" to another guy because he was younger than me ( i was worried because my first boyfriend was younger than me and i didnt enjoy being with him). i tend to not make too much of an effort because im tired of being dissapointed.

2007-02-04 15:46:07 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm going out with a guy right now. But, I keep having unsure feelings that I may not like him. I use to like this other guy a lot and sometimes I still think I love the other guy. I think about them both a lot of the time. I'm so confused on which one I truly love. Sometimes I worry that I'm just using the guy I'm going out with to forget about the other guy I liked and never liked me in return... Then other times I tell myself I truly do like my bf.. But, whenever I kiss him I feel nothing... Ugh.. I'm so confused.. Someone please help me.

2007-02-04 15:45:47 · 10 answers · asked by LUST 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother is having a wedding and as his sister I was wondering what I should do to help out?? Any advice...they are having a fall wedding. What is some advice I can give to them??

2007-02-04 15:45:45 · 19 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

hubby works but does not want to pay any bills, he keeps his money for himself and is me that pays all the bills and buy everythingl

2007-02-04 15:45:29 · 18 answers · asked by dancingwiththestars 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am reading an interesting article on manipulation and control and am wondering if a person who tries to manipulate you consistently asks questions that make you feel uncomfortable answering is a form of control.

Example. A mother that needs to feel close to her adult child uses manipulation and asks alot of personal questions and questions on how she 'feels' about things. When this child doesn't answer or lies.. the mother is hurt and upset.

2007-02-04 15:45:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-04 15:44:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this boy that is 12 and I kinda told him I liked him but he just said "o....." and that was it. I don't know if that means he doesn't like me or he does. WHAT SHOULD I DO? I like this kid a looooot! I even worked with him in a group project, but it wasn't optional. I take pro pics and act, I try to bring my pics to school and show them to my friends and some other ugly boys come to look but he doesn't! I am so frusterated!

2007-02-04 15:44:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I move on? How do I let go? How do I forget about him? Please help.

2007-02-04 15:44:33 · 16 answers · asked by funnybone 1 in Singles & Dating

What is a good way to tell a guy you arent interested?

I already told him that. He still calls 4 times a day, sometimes 12+.

I dont answer the phone... He knows ill answer it if im sleeping most of the time. So does most of the calling then... Knowing i need all the sleep I can get will try and wake me up to talk. If i hang up he will call back over and over.

He hasnt started showing up at my house but when i keep telling him no to going out he doesnt care and keeps asking to try and make me feel bad like..... " why dont you want to see me?! you dont like me do you?" so i say no and he Laughs it off.

Whats going on?! What do I need to do for it to end..



(We have never done anything sexually or romanticly)

2007-02-04 15:44:28 · 6 answers · asked by SARAH D 4 in Singles & Dating

yester me and my boyfriend were hanging out and we had to babysit his neice, so i was downstairs feeding her her baby food and i couldnt find the bib, so i called him downstairs like 30 times, and he never came. he would say what? but never come. so i was pretty pissed. then later, one of his friends called him and i answered and i went to give him the phone and he woudlnt take it and im like trying to get him to take it but he woudlnt so i was like saying stuff like hes in the bathroom, and then like idk it went on for a while, then my bf ran upstairs and so i was like OMG TAKE THE PHONE and then he staretd acting like i wasnt even near him when i answered the phone and was talking to his friend. and hes like OMG GIVE ME THE PHONE! dude im sorry how long have you been on the phone w/ her!? and im like OMG STOP! and hes liek OMGGG GO AWAY JACKIE! and was being all mean. and i was really pissed and so the rest of the time i was at his house, i didnt talk to him and hwen he droped me off

2007-02-04 15:43:37 · 2 answers · asked by yahhahaha 1 in Singles & Dating

for example:
i know thi couple who are together but not really together.they dont officially say they are together

why do ppl do this??

2007-02-04 15:42:55 · 6 answers · asked by adrian_1282 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and i broke up i broke up with her earlier today. I realized it was a mistake. I want her back is it to early to ask for her back? will i look retarded?

2007-02-04 15:42:28 · 19 answers · asked by Mike T 2 in Singles & Dating

this young man my life was crazy then i didnt know anything about him please tell me are we still married i mean how do i check?i found out he claimed me on taxes and im stuck with a bill how do i get rid of this?

2007-02-04 15:42:06 · 5 answers · asked by tashia c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm from iowa... I am fearful of my husband I am leaving, he has anger and drinking issues. The only time he has physically harmed me was in November 06, he was drunk and we were in bed and he wouldn't leave me alone and was getting really mean, i rolled over and turned my back to him and then he started saying really mean things to me, so i reached back and smacked him on the shoulder with the back of my hand. Then he pushed and kicked me off of the bed onto the floor, I was so scared I thought he was going to beat the crap out of me. He has been emotionally abusive for a long time and drinks a lot. I'm leaving him this weekend. Do you think I might be able to get one to protect my 1 year old daughter and I?

2007-02-04 15:41:50 · 7 answers · asked by .*AnNa*. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I just realized something has really been bothering me lately.
Last year... you could say I was "boy crazy." It seemed like having a boyfriend was the number one priority in my life at the time....
I finally understood it wasn't, and I needed to focus on my education more then anything else. The only thing is.. I just figured that out last summer. I went through a really rocky summer.
I got home from visiting my dad for most of the summer (he had left a couple of months ago for work to live somewhere else temporarley for 2 years), and setteled in back home... when about a month later I got molested.
Everything went downhill from there.. I lost friends, couldn't handle relationships with guys anymore, got depressed and started cutting...
Then my previous bf and I had some history if you know what I mean.. and I didn't freak out on him when it happened, but later when I got home I jsut didn't feel right at all.
I'm so confused... Idk if it was cuz of wat happened this summer or no...

2007-02-04 15:41:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating