There is this boy that is 12 and I kinda told him I liked him but he just said "o....." and that was it. I don't know if that means he doesn't like me or he does. WHAT SHOULD I DO? I like this kid a looooot! I even worked with him in a group project, but it wasn't optional. I take pro pics and act, I try to bring my pics to school and show them to my friends and some other ugly boys come to look but he doesn't! I am so frusterated!
2007-02-04 15:44:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are 12!!!!!! stop asking questions on yahoo answers!!!! go to school and sell some girlscout cookies.
2007-02-04 15:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ooh...I think you just learned the lesson that's always the hardest to learn.
When you're in that crazy "falling in love" stage where neither of you knows what the other's thinking, it's almost a guarantee that talking about the feelings will destroy them. It's crazy, but I've finally come to see that's what happens. I even know grown men and women who say "we're just friends" when they're cuddling together and playing with each other's hair. I think it's because love is so illogical that the logic of words can just mess it up.
So basically you just need to be really friendly with him without talking about it. And if he ends up hanging out with you all the time, guess what--you've got a boyfriend. Then, well, I'm still figuring out the right steps to take. Sometimes it works, sometimes I crash and burn. But as long as get over the failures and learn from your mistakes, you'll do fine in the end.
2007-02-05 00:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by Arbor Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is only skin deep. It's more about his character in the long run. I dated a cute boy in 6th grade and then when we were at the movies, he left and he had his friend come over and ask me if he could 'go up my shirt.' How retarded is that?!!! I said 'NO!' So he broke up w/ me! He wasn't worth my time- cute, but stupid!
So the next day, he brought a gift back to school that I had gotten him for his birthday- a Top Gun record. (This was in 1986) He broke it and slid it across the floor of the cafeteria during bus hall to try to humiliate me. So, with our principal looking on, I marched over and smashed the record on his head, quite hard. The principal laughed and to this day he remembers it! Served the jerk right....
But back to you, I think that the best relationships are the ones that just happen. Not through scheming to make it happen! I met my husband when I was only 14. He was 17 and I had not been even thinking about trying to make him like me. It just happened! I was actually thinking about how to make this other guy like me when he came into my life! So, sometimes it is better to let him come to you!!!
Good luck!
2007-02-04 23:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well boys at that age are tough. some of 12 year old boys arent interested in girls yet. theres a chance he may like u, but he most likely wont show it. ask a few of his friends. i always told my friends who i liked when i was a 12 y/o chap.
2007-02-04 23:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by lcag3415 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats your age may I know? You must be teenager I think. Just wait for some time. Its not good in this age. Concenterate on your studies... and settle down well in your career...Then so many guys come to you and propose to you. Then you can choose one in them.
2007-02-04 23:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Nenet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eitehr way your too young 9th grade or 8th atleast
anyways
you can't make a guy like you thats just controlling and no one like a controlling relationship
if he genuinely likes you he'll tell you if not then oh well
trust me its not the end of the world
you should still date when your a little older though
2007-02-04 23:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by Landon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh young love hey...most boys at that age just arent interested love,,,,i have a 12 y.o old boy too and some girls came knocking on our door asking if he wanted to go out with this other girl aged 10....he said "nooooooooo" and was very embarrassed....my god you are sooo young.....enjoy being a kid.....my son just isnt into girls yet,he's too into his sport ect...no time for girls......
2007-02-04 23:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by sandra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 yr olds aren't old enough to date. if he doesn't like you, he doesn't like you. not trying to be mean, but it's true. not everyone is going to fall at your feet. it happens to everyone. be yourself, and if the doesn't work, look at your personality. honey, your 12! concentrate on school. not on boys.
2007-02-04 23:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? and i don't think a boy aged 12 would want a girlfriend...
2007-02-04 23:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey am 12 well he probaly does like u he just doesnt want u tonow thats why hes avoiding u... or he doesnt want any boy else to suspect some thing well just act like u dont like him anymore and he'll want u...cuz u suposedly dont want him and hewants you.. dont worry he'll come to you.
2007-02-04 23:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by cute_an_single! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋