Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

I can't call him over the phone, he only has one and it's in the middle of his house so his parents would overhear, and I don't want to embarras him. I won't see him for another week or so, and he seems to be feeling really down lately. I want to tell him I love him... But those are kinda not a good idea to say over IM. Any suggestions?

2007-02-04 15:12:35 · 22 answers · asked by Joanne D 1 in Singles & Dating

She and I have been together for 3 years now, graduated from college, and now have our own places and jobs. The catch is that I graduated when I was 18 and will be twenty soon. She'll be 25. Lately, I've wanted nothing more than proposing to her and bringing this relationship to the next level. But she doesn't want to think about marriage now, says we're too young. Now she hates the very mention of it. We both live in Japan and plan to for the rest of our lives. Though I feel that even if we were in America, we would be in the same situation. She has family here but I'm away from family and friends. Sometimes I just want to talk about it with her but I know she'll only get frustrated that I brought it up.

2007-02-04 15:12:33 · 11 answers · asked by flyable penguin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Also, which site did you use. Im thinking of trying it...so Im just lookng for some advice and opinions!

2007-02-04 15:12:22 · 5 answers · asked by Bo B 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband still masterbates even though we have sex at least 4 times a week. We havent even been married for a year and he does that. Does anyone else think its wrong?

2007-02-04 15:12:18 · 7 answers · asked by here ya go... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It was the first time i actually went to hang out with him, and ended up giving a hand job/oral and messing around in bed. no sex, but still.. we aren't going out. but i dont usually do that at all, i've just been real stir crazy lately. but i dont want him to think thats all i will ever be is a hook up. how can i change that image he may have of me? i dont exactly want him to ask me out or anything, i just want his respect and interest in me. i dont want to be considered a 'hoe' to him. he is in my class at school so i see him everyday and we talk. i dont want him to treat me like im nothing. and the other thing is the next time we hang out i dont know if i want to go that far again. i will probably say no. but if i do say no, will he just drop me/lose interest and think im a joke?

please help out asap! sorry this is so long, i have a hard time explaining myself etc.

2007-02-04 15:12:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I've been infatuated with for a really really long time. And I know he wanted to hang out but nothing ever happened. One minute he was telling me how hot I was and if I wanted to makeout. He even asked if he could call me that coming weekend. It was super sweet and very cute. But he never did. I don't know if he lost interest or what. He never called me. And he only invites me to things that he knows I can't go to. What would possible make a guy interested in me again? I'm one of those girls that just wears whatever. I only wear makeup when my mom bugs me about it. Should I really make a change in my appearance? I think I should just to take better care of myself, but I don't want to be something I'm not. Any advice?

2007-02-04 15:11:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this boy is giving me all the signs that he likes me...so i told him i had a crush on him and all he said was that he kinda thought i did

what does that mean?

2007-02-04 15:10:38 · 20 answers · asked by WishfulLibra 5 in Singles & Dating

my bestfriend abby* has liked this guy named Dan* for a while. Dan and Abby hsve done "stuff" with eachother, but Dan dosnt like Abby any more. And I kinda like Dan but I dont whant Abby to get mad at me. So yesterday I was at Dans house and him and I were doing "stuff", then we went over to Abbys house. I told Dan that I didnt whant to do any thing with him in front of Abby, and he said okay. Well like everyone there got drunk. Dan kept saying to me lets kiss in front of Abby and I said "no" he said "your ashamed of me" i said "no im not, i just dont whant to loose my friendship with Abby" Well Abby and Dan were like kissing and **** rihgt in front of me. so i was like kissing this guy Blake and Dan got really mad and we were talking and I was like how do you think i feel when your like kissing Abby right in front of me i feel like ****. well him and abby like went to bed with each other. and this morning i heard them having sex. Dan wont talk to me now. What should I do?

2007-02-04 15:10:33 · 1 answers · asked by hardXXXcore niahhgg 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 15:09:32 · 4 answers · asked by rokdude5 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i've started liking one of my friends, but were not really good friends, and she hasn't noticed yet. i'm trying to figure out what to do, i'm not going to date because that's the fastest way to loose a friend. i don't have a crush on her but i do really like her. the big prob is that we go to diffrent schools, and only get to see each other at church. i'm thinking of stuff we can do together. btw we live in a tiny town and the only thing we have here is a walmart, a few pizza places, and a movie theater

2007-02-04 15:09:10 · 15 answers · asked by BANG! 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, so theres this girl that I like and I am pretty sure she likes me too now, her friend asked me to go to prom (girls ask the guys for this one) with her and I said yes, but then the girl I liked asked me, and I had to say no because i was going with the other girl and she asks another guy. prom has come and gone and I really want to ask her out, but the guy she took to prom wants to ask her out and I don't want to be mean but I talked to her and she doesnt like the guy, but he is under the imporession that she does. He was gonna ask her out on valentines day (my idea) and I don't want him to feel bad that she will say no, and also I do not want to ask her right after he asks her because I think that would be mean to him... what should I do and how long should I wait afewr the guy asks her

I just found out that she does like me but that makes it even more complicated

2007-02-04 15:08:38 · 8 answers · asked by me! 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm living with my sister for now but I can't stay for long. I have a job but the pay is not alot. She has 2 kids that I love very much. I just can't find a better way. Rent in N.Y is too much. I try to help her but she dont want any help. where can i live?

2007-02-04 15:08:04 · 1 answers · asked by larry m 1 in Singles & Dating

how old were you when you first fell in love with someone else

2007-02-04 15:07:39 · 50 answers · asked by JudyRamone 2 in Singles & Dating

I got the eyes,the smile, the looks, i play football for my school, im tough, i can make a girl laugh like no other, but as far as i ever really go is just flirting with a girl and every once in a while i get a hug, i dont get it?

2007-02-04 15:06:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and wait i mean i will would cause i love him but would anyone else do that is that a good thing for him to say?

2007-02-04 15:06:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But he is overweight and has drank excessively for years. Sometimes I worry that he might not survive until they are 18. Would my children receive an income from his social security benefits if this were to happen?

2007-02-04 15:06:01 · 13 answers · asked by cupidscorner6 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 35 years old i live in keqiao shaoxing i whant agirl 30 or 32 years old to be my friend

2007-02-04 15:05:33 · 3 answers · asked by bikoo 1 in Friends

how is it feel to be in love?

I never experience it before so i don't know how i feel right now is love......

2007-02-04 15:05:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a freshman in college and I think I'm in love with my RA. She is the most amazing person I've ever met. Here is the situation. She is a senior and has lots of friends. I don't because I'm from out of state and I'm in my first year. She invites me to do things with her and her friends and she has done some little things like move all the way to the other side of the table to sit near me. We have only been alone together once and I met her mom upon her request. Her friends sometimes joke about things getting serious between us and she just smiles when they say this. She shows a lot of interest in what I like and I've caught her staring at me a few times. I want to make a move, but I feel as though since she is the senior and I'm the freshman and since she is the RA and I'm the resident, she should have to make the move. I know she has to be nice as an RA, but she doesn't do things with the other guys on my floor. I know she doesn't have a boyfriend. What do I do from here?

2007-02-04 15:05:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 15:05:04 · 11 answers · asked by les s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

the posters are not revealing in any way, i just know that if my boyfriend had posters of hot girls on his walls, i wouldn't like it. should i take them down even though i know i luv my boy friend and not the hott guys on my walls?

2007-02-04 15:04:38 · 1 answers · asked by travelsized29 2 in Singles & Dating

I was recently in a situation. I told my daughter to get in her room after an argument where she became very defiant. She said "No, What are you going to do about it" I lowered my voice and said "Go Now" She still did not move. I told her she was grounded for her disrespectful behavior. She then said "I do not care." I have to admit I felt like smacking her. But i did not., I took a deep breath and walked away But What do I do? How do I deal with this behavior.?

2007-02-04 15:04:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-04 15:04:24 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 41 years old and been devorced going on 6 years now ,and I find my self wondering where I went wrong, I look in the mirror from time to tme and reallly dont see my self as a bad person ,we dated for two years and was married for nine years and had a wonderfull doughter who is going on 13 and try to spend as much time with her as I can .although with her mother and I being devorced we get along great . but I seem to find my self sheltering my self from society and not wanting to be around people a hole lot .I have went out with female friends sense my devorce but yet I seem to keep my morals and standards in place maybe that is why I am in the position I am in .I am meek and mild in my actions and dont drink ,so when I look in the mirror and think back in my life what am I missing,,,

2007-02-04 15:04:15 · 10 answers · asked by david p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-04 15:03:37 · 8 answers · asked by broad 1 in Family

2007-02-04 15:03:15 · 2 answers · asked by anh do 1 in Singles & Dating

my girl friend and i have been dating for 3 years. she recently hung out with a old friend from high school, who happends to be a guy. she told me that they made out back in high school for fun. she when to the movies with him the other night. she told me after they got out of the movies the talked for a while, about an hour. they have been talking a lot lately and texting each other. today durring the super bpwl she went into her room and talked to him for 40 mins. i went to post something on her myspace page and one of her best friends asked her "how last night went, and for all the details." is there anything to be worried about? what should i do?

2007-02-04 15:03:11 · 10 answers · asked by mark j 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. In my 5th period I am a Teachers Assistant. This teacher has another TA the same period, this really cute guy. I want him to ask me out, so how do I do that. I know a little about him, he's always telling jokes, is cute, but still sensitive (SOOO NOT A WUSS). I'm waaaaay to shy to ask him out so how can I get him to ask me out? HELP

2007-02-04 15:02:34 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's obssessed with my friend Allana, and I've liked him for a few months now. He's tried asking her out like 100 times since last month, and he knows she doesnt like him. He knows I like him, but sometimes he pushes my feelings aside and gets 2 caught up w/ Allana. I was like,"Why is it ok 4 Allana to be annoying, but its not ok 4 me?" And he answered,"Well, its ok 4 Allana cuz I like her and shes really hot." He's really nice, but not in moments like these. He also said,"Jenna you're really hot, but I like Allana more." My ex is like this 2... he said,"Yeah, Allana, you're cooler than Jenna, thats why we like you more." I have 2 admit, I still like my ex a tad, and I like Thomas 2, but they are SO not worth it, so what do I do?

2007-02-04 15:02:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay... my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 years. He's such a great guy and we have a very good, communicative relationship.(We're both virgins and saving it for marriage) Well this summer he's moving 3 hours away to start his second year of college. I can't leave yet so there's no way I can follow him. We're very much in love, but neither of us want to do the long distant relationship because we've seen too many people's relationships go bad from it. I trust him and I know he would never cheat on me, but the long distance thing for too long doesn't sound good to us at all considering we see each other every day. Neither of us want to break up, and we want to get back together after we're both finished with college if not sooner, but we can't think of anything to do but break up.
Any better ideas or advice to help us through this?:(

2007-02-04 15:02:25 · 2 answers · asked by shoe 4 in Singles & Dating