There's this guy I've been infatuated with for a really really long time. And I know he wanted to hang out but nothing ever happened. One minute he was telling me how hot I was and if I wanted to makeout. He even asked if he could call me that coming weekend. It was super sweet and very cute. But he never did. I don't know if he lost interest or what. He never called me. And he only invites me to things that he knows I can't go to. What would possible make a guy interested in me again? I'm one of those girls that just wears whatever. I only wear makeup when my mom bugs me about it. Should I really make a change in my appearance? I think I should just to take better care of myself, but I don't want to be something I'm not. Any advice?
2007-02-04 15:11:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey sweetie, you should use your femininity to your best advantage, right? That would mean to wear makeup, wear flattering clothes, smell good, walk and talk like a lady, and guaranteed, everyone will notice you.
Listen, I don't have to wear a miniskirt and reveal cleavage to make guys notice me. All I have to do is dress good, keep myself clean and smelling nice, and always always wear a smile.
It also helps if you don't wear a bra!! ha ha!
anyway, good luck, and don't be discouraged with yourself.
xoxox
Betty
2007-02-04 15:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go right up to him and say
Whats up? did you want to hang out with me or not? I am getting mixed messages from you and I am starting not to like it.
The ball is now in his court....you dropped it in his lap.
and.......... as long as you are clean,you are a somebody that somebody else will love, your mom is just trying to help.
ask her to pick out your next outfit from your closet and hide the ugly stuff that she likes from her! Its called compromise and it's an art! and who knows, your mom might have cool taste and make up a great outfit that you would never have known about!
2007-02-04 15:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by to tell ya the truth........... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't change yourself. If he wants you he was attracted to you the way you are. Maybe he just got interested in some one else. Look at other boys that may bring him running
2007-02-04 15:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever change your appearance for someone you don't know is worth it at the end.
2007-02-04 15:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋