3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out.
2007-02-04 15:49:20 · 11 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Did he rush the date by taking me home after the movie cuz he doesn't like me OR was it cuz he felt awkward?
2007-02-04 15:49:55 · update #1
If he did not like you, he would not have asked you to go. i can't say what he wants. My guess would be that he is at an age where he is looking for a wholesome lady such as yourself and he may be just "testing the water" so to speak...to see if you two get along. Kudos to you, by the way, to sticking to your guns and waiting for marriage! You rock! :)
2007-02-04 15:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by fair blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or maybe because it wasn't a date at all. You just went to a movie! A lot of people go out with friends to see movies and after the movie go on their merry way. Your genders doesn't matter and the fact that you used to date him says nothing too. A lot of guys and girls date for a very short amount of time and decide it's better to just be friends.
Now, if there are more details that you left out, it might be different. Really, that approach doesn't sound like he's trying to get after you for sex, now if he was taking you out on a regular basis, started dating you again and told you how hopelessly in love he was with you and of course being so 'innocent' you'd fall for that crap and **** him and then probably get pregnant and blame the abortion on him like all 'innocent' girls do, sure, he's using you for sex.
2007-02-04 23:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that he wanted to see if you'd put out after not seeing him for a year. Obviously you haven't changed. If he wants to see you "every once in a while", then it's at that time he wants to see if you put out yet. Good luck, and keep being yourself!
2007-02-04 23:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by Shhhhh.......... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Combination of sex/lonely. It probably wasn't specificaly to get into bed...but when guys go w/o a g/f for a while and get lonely they sometimes call up past girlfriends. It may not even be for sex but just to go out with. What he does next will clear things up for you.
2007-02-04 23:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by TGBoston 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't like you then he wouldn't call you and spend any time with you at all. Not sure what his motives are, but you should ask him this question: "Why did you want to see me, is it because you want to get back together?"
Make sure it's to the point. Guys don't do well with hints.
2007-02-04 23:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, he probably does want sex. He probably wants to see you every so often because he wants to see if your beliefs have changed. What ever you do do not give in to him. I think its great that a girl your age is waiting
2007-02-04 23:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why hang around, you served your purpose.
He apparently hates going to certain places alone.
I hope he paid for the movie, drink, and popcorn.
Don't read anything into the date, he had his chance.
2007-02-05 00:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a date to let you know he is interested in you and brought you home right away because he knows your beliefs.........Its a check up date.................Like you said he can get it anywhere ...he just wants to know if you are still available for when he wants to have a serious girlfriend.........................
2007-02-04 23:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by ginny3282 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants any woman at the moment and thought that you would be the only one that would go to him... he was just desperate... next time don't go
2007-02-04 23:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was because he wanted to start things off slowly with you again
2007-02-04 23:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by ronny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋