i love this man,he had a 1 year old daughter,so with me,im separated and so with him,he loves me alot,the mother of his daughter always txting me that the man i loved will not stay with me longer,she said that his using me....i confronted him about that and said its not true...im confused now,do i have to give up and tell him that he should settle with his his ex?????.....for the past few weeks.....im trying to give way,and my love to him slowly fading.....
2007-02-04 15:51:52 · 7 answers · asked by gwyn_41 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She is definately the one with the problem. My mom never did anything like that. If she was a good woman, she would talk about the kids, not him.
2007-02-04 16:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by Doggzilla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to your inner voice, do you like him? If you do, why your love to him start to fade when you received just a text message (imagine when the ex show up at your face), and most people have more than one ex-relationship.
My advice to you is, only think about you and him, not you and him and his baggage (ex-relationship), stay focus on how much you like him and how much you trust him, don't drive yourself crazy by thinking about the X-factor.
2007-02-05 00:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by @!# 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a relationship and trust the individual have him tell the ex to stop calling and move on with him. If you lack faith/trust than it's better for you to move along. Good luck with whichever.
2007-02-04 23:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you really need to step back and ask yourself if you really beleive the ex, or not. She has every reason to lie to you and try to keep you apart.
If you do NOT feel like he is using you then why would you listen to his ex about his feelings for you. Realy think about it... If you love this man you are going to have to Stop listening to his ex and start listening to him. good luck.
2007-02-04 23:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let his ex complicate your relationship. He does in fact have to confront her on why she is texting you. He needs to give her closure, or she will always be bitter.
2007-02-04 23:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this a black lady bothering you? never deal with a man that has "baby mama drama"! i think you should leave him and his crazy ex girl alone. you can find a better guy with less stress! : ) good luck!
2007-02-04 23:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by Thats Hot! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be you, and let him decide what he wants.
2007-02-04 23:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by teentitanliz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋