Should I tell my date this?

Question

On a first date since my divorce should I tell her that she is the second girl that I have dated "counting my ex of 15 years". I will be a little nervous and feel that it would help break the ice=) Also is dinner and a movie to much on the first date?

Answer 1

I don't think it should be the first thing out of your mouth. But if you feel comfortable after awhile then tell her.

Answer 2

Sure tell her how you rate yourself in the sack while your at it.
Just kidding, why accentuate a possible negative.
It's all before you met her. Don't volunteer information like some confessional gone wild. If she asks you only answer the question. You don't need to get into all the details. She should respect that you wouldn't talk about them anymore than you would talk about her. If she doesn't understand that bit of logic you should steer clear of her. You'll impress her more by being confident in yourself and mindful of her. Your conversation can easily start with what's on the menu and looking for commonalities between the two of you. Shake off the rust and some what guilty conscience man. Don't forget about simple culture like the museum. Women dig art. If they don't like art you can bet their just shallow and unimaginative. I've had a few charged sessions after the museum, we both found it stimulating.
Don't fall into your old ways, it's time to grow outward and find new things. Ask yourself why your divorced and you'll find that rut.
Expand your horizons of entertainment don't limit yourself to retaurants and theatres. There's more out there than that.
Have fun and treat it as an adventure because it is.

Answer 3

A dinner and a movie is a great idea. Don't tell he the stuff about it being the first date in a while. Not only does it make for an awkward conversation starter, but it will make u extra nervous. be yourself and see how things go. If you guys hit it off, save it for another day. Or else, just be fine with the results.

Answer 4

I really am sure that you should not tell any girl that' you don't have to tell so much of your business so soon, and dinner and a movie is perfect, but don't be nervous. just be your self, think of it as friendship and what ever comes will come, don't rush and do expect, Don't sell your self short, I am sure you have allot to offer, but talk not so much and listen allot... that is good advice' Good luck and let me know how it works out, peace

Answer 5

No dont. Cause then she'll feel obligated to talk about her past relationship. General rule is to never bring up past relationships on a 1st date...save it for later times when you get to know each others past more.

Answer 6

Dinner & Movie is fine and by all means tell her she is your
first date and ask her to forgive any clumsyness on your part.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Diner & movie is just fine. ur ex was before ur marriage i presume?? then it isnt neccisary to really mention it. if the subject arises, be honest &open with her, according to how much she reveals about herself, &how interested she is in knowing u.

Answer 9

You should ease into topics like that..wait a couple more dates.

Answer 10

Probably not. What she doesnt know wont hurt her.