Not stupid pick up lines but just what is the best thing to say to a women to get her to talk to you at a bar/club
2007-02-04 15:54:46 · 31 answers · asked by killinitt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
club-Hello, would you like to dance?
bar-Hello, can I buy you a drink?
2007-02-04 16:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't one. Most girls in a bar scene have heard them all. If you can be just bold enough to say, "Hey, I noticed you, and I'd like to talk to you awhile (buy you a drink) (get to know you a little) (take you back to my place and, you know.)--the last one might get you a slap in the face, or not.--being straight forward I think works the best.
I met met second wife at a disco and she concocted quite a story to get me to pay attention to her. There were many beautiful women in the place so she might have felt the need to draw my attention to her. She thought, or said she did, that I was a professor at a nearby university. She started questioning me about it, about classes, etc. Actually I was a part-time student there and was selling encyclopeadias at night, stopping at the disco after work. Her line was so charming that I never let her know I knew she was handing me bull until we'd been lovers for several months. Lines don't work unless the target wants them to, that's my point.
2007-02-04 16:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by Nightwriter21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is introduce yourself, and after immediately try to find some common ground. Face it, pick-up lines aren't the best thing to use to get a womans attention. Once you find common ground it should be smooth sailing for the rest of the night.
2007-02-04 16:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by caring black guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick up lines never work. Unless the type of girl you are looking for is the kind that does not value herself. If you really want to get to know the girl be sincere
2007-02-04 15:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what you want. They always say - only one type of person goes to a club. But I think thats not true.I do and dont look for guys to hook up just to go.
Be friendly, and fun. Say hey - what you drinking tonight? Let me buy you one.
Be friendly, talk.Make her laugh. Not that hard if shes got some alcohol already in her lol.
Just have fun.
2007-02-04 16:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, don't even think about pick-up lines, just be your true self; as dorky or shy as you might be with a name like "killinit". Say hi, introduce yourself, let her introduce herself, if you are really attracted to her point this out with compliments, but explain. Don't talk too much either, let her talk as well and LISTEN to what she is talking about!!!! If you initially approach her because of her body you'll probably fail, search and socialize through eye contact. Smile don't laugh...yet. Good luck KILLER!!
2007-02-04 16:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the pick up lines, ask her what she's drinking and buy her a drink or ask her if she wants to do a shot. Just be yourself, this superficial crap is so played out. No pick up lines ever!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-04 15:59:46 · answer #7 · answered by beachdiva954 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure most women would like a pleasant introduction and intelligent conversation, not some macho "dude" who thinks he is Gods gift to woman.
2016-03-29 05:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello
2007-02-04 15:56:45 · answer #9 · answered by Dan821 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jest be yourself - offer to buy her a drink or whatever would be normal for you. Women have brains and can see through any pick-up lines.
2007-02-04 15:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by ILOVELUCYFAN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the ones who you will meet in bars and clubs are prob not the people who want a relationship. but if youre not looking for a relationship, and youre just looking for "a good time" then it doesnt really matter what u say to them, bc theyre prob gonna want it too.
2007-02-04 15:59:35 · answer #11 · answered by orangequeen9208 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋