Me and this guy have gone out 3 times on what i call dates. First one he cooked for me at this apartment, 2nd one we had dinner and a movie, and 3rd we rented a movie and watched it at his place. I like him but hoping he likes me back. To me these are dates but idk because he hasn't even hugged me when i left. We talk alot when we are with each other, but i called him today and he didn't answer but idk if he was busy or what. I don't want to ask him to his face if we are dating or what because i dont want him to think im stupid, or get freaked out that i thought that so we won't hang out anymore. So what do you think are we in like the "talking phase" of our relationship are we are we dating with not being steady or our we just hanging out and having fun?
2007-02-04 16:09:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's the hurry? It takes two to tango, and he doesn't feel like dancing, yet. Yes they are dates, and dates are for learning about compatibility. I'd say things are way too casual, so keep your options available. No reason not to date him in the future, but you're nowhere close to being exclusive.
2007-02-04 16:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you've had some good times together so far, don't stress so much about the whole dating thing, soon enough when he is ready, if he is a gentleman of course, he will let you know that he wants to be exclusive with you....don't call him back now by any means, let him return your call, better off not looking too desperate .......
If you feel that you want to be his one and only girlfriend then you better just let him know soon, but keep it subtle and don't pressure him, anyway, by the way you two have already been hanging out at his place, it seems like he's either wanting you to be his girl or he's just a player, you need to figure it out! did you have sex with him when at his apartment?!!!
2007-02-04 16:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...by date three you should at least be getting the hug goodnight. It might be that you guys are just going to be friends. Is it possible he's just crazy shy? Would it do you some good to just tell him that you are really digging hanging out with him and look forward to doing it more? Can you invite him to your place and really make him a kick *** dinner and make a move of your own?
2007-02-04 16:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Marc M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the initiative, try hugging him the next time you see him, or kiss him on the cheek. Most importantly, quit mulling over three dates. If it seems you are enjoying eachother's company that's all that really matters at this point. Becoming friends first is never a bad route to take.
2007-02-04 16:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by Adrian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to pour chilly water on a a threat good courting, yet when a guy doesen't call interior of two weeks, he merely requested because he had no longer something else to communicate about. notwithstanding, in case you do get to work out him with assistance from coincidence, you may ask, "whats up! i'm nevertheless waiting on your call." He may have lost your determination.
2016-11-02 08:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd call him a good friend.
If something develops it will happen on its own.
Why put pressure on the relationship?
If you're enjoying the company what's the problem. Maybe he's slow, maybe he's trying out a few relationships to see who's the most compatible etc..
Maybe he's playing the shy quiet type just to get you in bed and dump you. Let things progress on it's own and don't rush it.
Believe it or not women have male friends without having sexual encounters or marriage on their mind.
2007-02-04 16:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever stop to think that maybe he is a bit shy? He may not know how far he can go. Next "date" just take his hand and see what happens, if he doesnt pull away, engage him in a hug. Theres no need to move fast, just take things as they come! Good Luck!!
2007-02-04 16:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by laddrjok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a date to me. Not too many guys I know would do all that and not call it a date. If it isn't a date, then I don't know what else to say, I hope this helps.
2007-02-04 16:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry! Things will work themselves out! Never assume though! Be sure your an item before you tell anyone that you are! My guess is he really likes you and was raised the right way, he is far to shy to get close or he has never been anywhere passed there before! Go slow, enjoy!
2007-02-04 16:16:27 · answer #9 · answered by Silver Surfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if you two are exclusive. Being a guy there is no other way to answer this type of a question other than the straight forward truth. If he tries to dodge the question it will be plainly obvious and you will know
2007-02-04 16:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by GoodWillHunt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋