My girlfriend told me she trusts me 90% should i move on or stick with her? please help?

Question

so im on my nexopia and I say to my girlfriend, hey would you like my password so you can go on and write a message on my profile. she did so but then when im over at my friends house about 2 hours later i get a message saying "What does this mean "is she single"(i had asked my friend josh if a girl was single so my friend luke could date her)" so from that i know shes been reading all my personal emails, i dont have anything to hide but yet she read them! to me that seems like an insult. then i ask her if she trusts me 100% and she tells me about 90%. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship right? can you guys help me out, i told her i would think about it overnight and i need some advice.

so im on my nexopia and I say to my girlfriend, hey would you like my password so you can go on and write a message on my profile. she did so but then when im over at my friends house about 2 hours later i get a message saying "What does this mean "is she single"(i had asked my friend josh if a girl was single so my friend luke could date her)" so from that i know shes been reading all my personal emails, i dont have anything to hide but yet she read them! to me that seems like an insult. then i ask her if she trusts me 100% and she tells me about 90%. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship right? can you guys help me out, i told her i would think about it overnight and i need some advice.


also i just found out the the message she read was on the 16th page. meaning she went though 16 pages to get to there. she could have read them all :(

sorry about the double explanation.

Answer 1

No one can trust the other person 100%

Even if you do, the stats shows that the person who you trust the most is the one that is going to stab you in the back so there will always be that few % which you wont trust the other person

Answer 2

I would be insulted too, if my boyfriend read all my emails. But, I would stick with her for a while and see what happens. It's very hard for some people to trust. There could be something in her past that causes her to mistrust people in general. Trust is extremely important, but it also takes time to build. And, from what I've experienced, it increases and decreases from time to time. I wouldn't let this one incident ruin the relationship. Keep working to build trust between the two of you. If this is something that becomes an issue all the time and she is constantly checking up on you every second over a period of time, then reconsider.

Answer 3

Well, the time frame that the two of you have actually been dating is important to me to give you a better answer. However, the fact that you offered your gf your password is a form of trust right there. A trust you have in her. Unfortunately, your gf may have munipulated this "offer" as a green light to have a field day with your e-mail. She knows it was wrong, but obviously is not quite 100% there in the trust department with you yet. She was honest about that, right? Trust is a very important issue in a relationship. But I personally would not end it over the e-mail issued. I think you should discuss with her that it hurt your feelings. If it continues to be a major source of problems for you two, then the relationship may need to halt.

Answer 4

WELL in my opinion 9 out of 10 isn't bad at all, I just think it takes some folks longer to trust, and it just takes more than knowing each other for more than a few months, if thats the case I didn't see that you said anything about, how long you had been with each other.I've known lots of people but I haven't yet known a couple that trust each other 100 percent about everything ,except maybe my grandparents and they were together for more than 50 years,I know we all want to be trusted, and not to have our loyalty's questioned, but if it's not and everyday thing it should be taken as a misunderstanding, and move on . because only you would know ,if this one thing that happened is worth breaking up over, I myself it would depend on love .

Answer 5

90% is 'not' total trust, and total trust is essential in a realtionship, especially if you feel serious about one another..
I think the thing you need to consider is this!
Was it you who went into 'her' emails? NO,
she read yours. Did she 'ask' your permission to read your emails? NO, she did it deceptively!
Now who's 'really' the one who cannot be trusted!! She obviously can't!
And then to tell you she only trusts you 90% is
so 'hypercritical' and very 'two faced'.
You need to be the one concerned about whether you can really trust her or not, and from what I see here 'YOU CAN'T'.
Let her go and find a girl who will 'love, trust, and respect you', because this girl doesn't!!

Answer 6

i had this problem as well. i told 2 lies to my bf that i shouldnt have lied abotu he said he forgave me but then almost a year later he broke up wiht me cause he couldnt stop thinking about it (they were VERY small and stupid lies i told, nithing bad though) but anyways he said he trusted me a little bit. i wanted to work on the relationship with him and so did he. so we got back together a few days later. he forgave me the next month and said that he fully trsted e, just explain it to her. about what heppened and im sure she will understand. you are her bf so she has to believe you! good luck!
dont leave her@ that would be an easy way ouy. stay and work on the relationship with her if you want to ,

Answer 7

well if you communicate very well then trust shouldnt be a problem. maybe you two dont know each other or understand each other because that does take some time and some faith also. peace