My husband meets women on the net and then has phone relationships with them, we are married and have 3 kids and he doesn't tell them about us. I eventually find out about them and they stop. One time a lady sent flowers to the house that said "To the begining of something special Love, Carol" He travels for work so he has opportunity to meet them. I do not have access to his bank account so I don't know if he sends them anything. When I find out he swears it'll never happen again. He's now playing Final Fantasy XI online and the other night he told a lady he had taken his clothes off and that he was holding her. I said that it was cyber sex not a part of a fantasy fighting game. He said that I am stupid it is a part of the game. With his history I can totally see him getting this ladies #. I really am at a lose on what to do I love him but feel I deserve better than this. Since we're married and I'm uncomfortable about it I don't think he should do this. Is this ok for him to do?
2007-02-04 16:25:46 · 2 answers · asked by rhonda c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HELL NO ITS NOT OK FOR HIM TO DO YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM HES A HORRIBLE JERK YOU DEFINITELY DESERVE MUCH BETTER... HE HAS PROBABLY CHEATED ON YOU OFTEN! IM SERIOUS WALK AWAY NOW BEFORE HE HURTS YOU MORE!
2007-02-04 16:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband obviously has no respect for you. It's a pity that you have children as this complicates things when marriages go wrong, still you should not have to put up with his unfaithfulness, even cybersex is still sex.
2007-02-04 17:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by Brad H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋