have you ever been unloved???girls only please????

Question

girls ,
have you ever felt unloved after breaking up with somebody??? i just had a break up with my girlfriend of 4 years and feel so unloved and hurt what can i do??? serious answers only please....

Answer 1

If it's worth it try to go back with her. Go for it! it was a long relationship you should work it out and yes it is a normal feeling to feel unloved at first but them it goes away little by little. Good luck

Answer 2

Are you kidding man? Why do you feel "unloved" just because things didn't work out for you with ONE girl. I know breakups are hard and even more so in your case since your relationship was of four years. The best think you can do for yourself is to stop dwelling on it and to immediately stop thinking all this nonsense of yourself. Start hanging out more with your homies, and when you feel you're ready, get out there and start meeting some new girls. You'll start feeling much better, trust me.

Answer 3

After every break up I ahve gone through, I just basically feel really upset for a few days but the best cure it seriously to start checking other people out. It makes it easy to move on and you realize that being single doesnt suck.
Good Luck

Answer 4

im not sure how to answer your question. since i don't know who dump and got dump in your situation.

i learn from experience. i know if you get dump, it hurts but if you do the dumping, you feel better. i think its psychological than emotional.

my thoughts on this, if you got dump, you never know if its you, kind of worry when it start or guilt wondering why, i know it involves hurt for that 4 years being together, you think you already know her. but sometimes, you cannot help but accept the fact and move on with your life. if its meant to be, it will be.

you need to be around friends and concentrate on your new found freedom.if she is confuse, give her time to think, maybe its just a trial for both to see if this is what you guys wants.

there are lots of reasons, did she tell you why? unless, there are some problem with her that she don't want you to be involve with, maybe her career or studies is troubling her? how about the family, are they aware of you two? unless she found someone that she thought more of her liking, that will be the end of your hopes.

meanwhile, be sure that you focus on your own issue. take time to heal broken hearts. but you will get over with if you accept it whole heartedly. don't feel guilty if you give all of you and knowing you loved her and treat her best but in turn she act like that. maybe she is not worth your time?

Answer 5

yep, been there too often, and it's very painful, for some it hurts physically too, for me it actually felt like my heart was breaking, unfortunately nothing but time can help, you can try to find things to do to pass the time, or do things you always enjoyed, anything that will take your mind off it.
Sometimes writing it all down helps, by the time you are done writing, you feel a sense of relief.
But in the end the passage of time like it always does, heals all wounds.

Answer 6

You must let yourself grieve. You have lost somebody who you loved, maybe not with physical death. Your hopes and dreams are gone, dead. Your love is gone, the love of your life. Just as divorcee's need to grieve, so should you. Take your time and live one day at a time. Wait for a while and your life will come together again. You, in honesty, will always remember her and your love for her will never fade completely away. In a few years, memories of her will sooth you and make you smile.