Im 21 and in November my fiance split up with me. We had afew fights and it wasnt working out for us. We had a block of land together and i made all the repayments on it since we had it cos he was sorting his life out seeing a therapist. And after we broke up i said for him to make repayments cos i couldnt deal with it anymore. And we had an argument. cos he didnt want to have the responsability. I found out recently that his mate asked my friend " Why does nat555 have to be such a b**** to my ex fiance". I was sooo hurt because he had been telling people that i wasnt nice and i never ever hurt him like that i always respected him and told people good things about him. Does anyone have any good advise they can give me?
2007-02-04 16:45:08 · 12 answers · asked by Nat555 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By all means, put this in the past. You deserve much better, believe it! You sound like a really sweet and giving person... Opportunities await! Get out there and meet some new people. Best wishes.
2007-02-04 16:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about it.
He's most likely immature and you're a lot better off without him.
Better now then sometime in the future and thank god you didn't Marry him.
As for the land, you could try and sell it. Agreed he should have contributed his share (but you could always go after him in court)
As for his friend (his friends will obviously take his side) and yours will probably side with you.
Life's too short to be bothered with annoyances, move on, enjoy and count your blessings.
2007-02-05 00:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, umm, yea...is that a question or a book?...umm, i'm not sure what to tell you, it seems like you're pretty upset, so why don't you just step back and think **** it, it's only life, there's bound to be another dimention when we die...things will be different then...OW BUT OMG DON"T TAKE THIS AS I THINK U SHOULD KILL UR SELF>>NO NO NO....just be happy and live, causse being sad and mad just ain't worth no ones time
2007-02-05 00:50:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you truely know the meaning of Love Hurts...
This will take time...
You need to talk with your close friends, but you will have to do it yourself... you are at a stage of self analysis... time is all you have now, use it wisely.
2007-02-05 01:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him and move on. The guy is obviously a looser. You're probably better off without him
2007-02-05 00:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by peace_world_tour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're so lucky to have known him soon. You're so fortunate to get rid of this man, and you could be sure that this man would leave your friend too. because his problem weren't you, but were himself, his own bad characters.
2007-02-05 00:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by ROYA R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say kick his butt, grab his wallet and repay yourself, then tell him ur moving on, u found a hot spanish guy with awesome accent, then just or the heck of it, kick him in the nuts, he'll cry over u forever LOL
2007-02-05 00:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by Rey M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he just trying to make it sound like it all you, but he also hurting
as well. you were engaged to be marry . but you just need to
move on,you know the real deal so that all that matter. just
leave him in the past and go on with your life.
2007-02-05 00:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get him out of your life and find that special guy who won't hurt you and will instead love you.
2007-02-05 00:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...get the land titled in your name, since you've been paying for it. (get a lawyer for this) and then defend yourself or let it go...
He's an ass....you're probably lucky to be rid of the idiot.
2007-02-05 00:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Chrys 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋