I find them both degrading and insulting to the person you're about to marry. To, as a man, go out and drink and do stuff with male only friends, and even sometimes have a female stripper....what?? It is beyond me. Its like saying, "Life with you as my wife/husband is going to be so terrible, I better soak up all the fun I can while I'm at it." let alone the things themselves. Female/Male strippers before you're about to commit yourself spiritually, emotionally and physically to one person? I personally will never ever have one, nor would I be interested in anyone who would. Even a 'tame' version I dislike- the only thing I can see as acceptable is if everyone goes together for a fun night out. And I'm not one of those nuts who thinks Dr. Spock had it right or anything...just how I feel about this. What do you think?
2007-02-04 16:34:05 · 10 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel eaxctly the same way. I think you're awesome!
2007-02-04 16:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Joa5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maximum bachelor events are not remotely like what you defined. specific, some adult adult males (or gals) cheat, yet i don't think of that occurs in many circumstances, and if it does they are undesirable human beings at first. the factor is to have relaxing with your human beings earlier getting married. My fiance is adamant approximately not having a bachelor celebration, so he's not having one. i'm having a "bachelorette" celebration, regardless of the undeniable fact that it extremely is going to encompass me and 3 girlfriends, out on a catamaran... and my fiance would be there along with his band enjoying music. it extremely is going to likely be 2 hours long, we will pay attention to my fiance's band play and have a pair cocktails, then i will head residing house. It would not could be a loopy affair crammed with strippers and a ton of booze. it extremely is any sort of celebration, extremely.
2016-12-13 09:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by anirudh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those types of parties do not always have strippers. I had one and my girls and I went to dinner and just hung out together. My husband like you does like the thought of them, in the stripper bar hopping way. He didn't have one. You know, people are going to do it anyways and whatever floats their boat, heck if they are not hurting anyone, then who cares...I personally don't like strippers, nor do i think they are OK at a party...People get stupid when they are drinking and stuff can happen....
2007-02-04 16:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhh... I agree with you whole heartedly!!!...
My husband had one, (I didn't)I was disgusted to find out he had 2, yes 2 strippers (twins actually!!), I was horrified.... I said that exact thing "what, your friends feel so bad for you, having to look at me naked for the rest of your life, they better get 2 strippers with size 8GGG boobs, and a figure so tiny, you have to tie her down on a windy day!...
I was told it's for the friends not the groom-to-be!!!..
The other thing I am against is men having a wet the babies head!. I blatanly refused to let my husband have one...
I had to ask him what the hell he did??? I had to push an 11 pound baby, out of something the size of an apricot, (which took 21 hours). While he sat there painfree watching the cricket between contractions until the baby's head popped out!!!!
Then he wants to leave me in hospital to get up / stay up with it all night, while you're getting drunk (probably with more strippers with their 8GGG physique, while I'm in hospital in pjs big enough to put 3 of me in 9 months ago!)
Men!!!! So infuriating!.... Tradition needs to stop!
2007-02-04 16:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by Missy Missy! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! that is great I am just like that. I think that way too. I feel that when someone is about to get married it is because they are prepared and do not need to do bad things before the marry. Why not do a family gathering dinner instead isn't that what it's about? hope there was more like you.
2007-02-04 16:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree if you feel that your life is going to be so terrible with person that you have to go party the night before you wedding you shouldn't be marring the person.
2007-02-04 16:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by hebblethwaitesgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most chicks may agree with you. Don't know very many guys that would. But good for you for having restraint. Now stick that dolla in my G and let's be done with it.
2007-02-04 16:40:44 · answer #7 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way too I'm right there with you.
2007-02-04 16:41:11 · answer #8 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad there are some others in this world who feel this way. God bless you!!!
2007-02-04 16:45:21 · answer #9 · answered by The Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally agree with you!
2007-02-04 16:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋