I'm in love with this guy, and have been for almost 2 years now. it's been 13 months since we broke up, and we only were togehter for a short 3 weeks, but something clicked, and i knew then and there he was the one. since then we have dated on and off, and other friends (ex friends) have dated him. we are still kind of friends, talking occasionally. but he is an ***, and i can't seem to move on. I know he doesn't love me back, not anymore atleast, but is it worth it to wait it out. (this guy is a man-whore who plays every girl, but i thought me and him might be different). i have waited this long, would it kill me to wait any longer?
2007-02-04 16:36:55 · 10 answers · asked by chickpea726 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, why would you want to be with a person you know is a manwhore? It is clear that he is not as serious about you, as you are him. Stop being in denial and wake up! Men are very easy to understand, if you pay attention. You cannot be in love by yourself...it's probably infatuation. Move on...I'm sure you are a great person and there is someone out there that would really appreciate you. Trust me, if you stay with him, it'll probably get worse and you'll be too emotionally unstable to date anyone else.
2007-02-04 16:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Fireanddesir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. It's hard to let go. I don't recommend you going out and dating immediately like some have suggested because you are still torn for this guy. What I would suggest is that you sit down and think. And I do mean really think and evaluate what it is that you want for yourself. Is it someone like him??? Maybe. But you need to think about it. Also, to find some closure you may want to talk to or communicate to him how you feel in some sort of way. Perhaps, through a letter or an email. You will feel better once you know that he knows how you truly feel. And only you can tell him. Trust me he's probably hurting too which is why he's running around with all those girls. To forget about you. A year isn't that long. We, as in humans, never forget relationships or interactions that we've had. No matter how bad or good or in between they are.
2007-02-05 01:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother waiting around for this guy. You could do a lot better. Even though it's hard now, try to believe that there is someone else out there for you. Don't waste your time thinking about him. I'm going through a similar situation, and I'm doing all I can to stop thinking of him, but it is so hard. Good luck.
2007-02-05 00:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by devilwoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I'm gonna tell you what you already know. You said yourself, he's a man-whore and it's been over A YEAR. I think you know the deal, your heart just won't let it go.
Think, in that year, how many good men you may have missed.
2007-02-05 00:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy isn't treating you with the respect you deserve. It's always hard after a breakup but go on with your life. Go out and meet other guys who will treat you better than him, it will definitely be hard at first but will benefit you in the end!
2007-02-05 00:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by jii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u heard of dis saying??
"if u think u can change him, u probly can't"
dets ure case. obvsly, dis guy is a jerk. u admitted so.
i have no idea why you or any of ure friends wud date him.
being frens wif dis kind of guys are perfectly ok. they make better friends den bf's.
u seem like de kind of girl who's like
if she's in love, she realli loves you, and only you.
dets gd. but how abt giving ure love to sumone who deserves it more. and clearly, u dun deserve him. u deserve better.
waiting longer won't kill you, of cos. but it'll give him an ego boost to know det deres always you there to go back to when no one wants him. ONLY to ditch you when he sees sumone better.
move on babe.MOVE.ON.
u can stay as frens, but lovelife, moveon.
gd lcuk!hopei've been of help((:
*dis are mere suggestions. decisions are all you.((:
2007-02-05 00:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it killing you at the moment?
You know, to love someone, you risk that they don't love you in return... And to love someone, you rather know and be disappointed, than to not know and always wonder...
I think you need to clarify what you want and what you have to lose, because you have things you want to know and things you want to say, but it is hard for you, because you are afraid of what the result might be... but ask yourself truly... do you rather have the answers or you rather live your life wondering...
Hmmm... very tough isn't it?
Well, life isn't easy and with love, there's always pain.
2007-02-05 00:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-02-05 00:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it will he wont change for you. Sorry but thats the truth
2007-02-05 00:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wait......there were more guys out there..............
2007-02-05 00:43:09 · answer #10 · answered by leila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋