Ok my dad had some people over today to watch a big football game. This girl came over with her mom and dad and she's really cute and I think she likes my boyfriend and he's sooo hot and I dont want to lose him. Anyway I was forced to sit with him to protect him and watch that stupid game. His mom came over with her fiance and my mom noticed that I was all uptight and told me to chillllll!! and I did and than she and I went into the other room to hang out. Anyway what do you think? Am I being paranoid?
2007-02-04 16:27:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There will always be pretty girls around, you cant protect your man from that. And just because a girl may not be pretty doesnt mean he wont find something about her personality attractive(which would then make him find her attractive all together) You just have to have confidence(not *********) that your boyfriend is happy with you and theres no reason to go looking elsewhere. All men look, but usually have a reason to stay right where they are.
2007-02-04 16:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey just take a breath and calm down, I'm in the same position as you. First find out stuff about her, does she go to your school, what grade, who does she hang out with, do people consider her a sl*t, find out everything about her. Then act normal around your boyfriend don't look supicious if you think she is a threat after you find all that out come back and post what you find out and I'll give you more advice but I don't know enough details to judge at this point. Also no your not paranoid your completely and totally fine you have a right to be jealous or what ever it is that you are because he's YOUR did you hear that YOUR man not hers and if she thinks she can try to take him away from you she is wrong becuase you care way too much tooo loose him to some girl. Hope this helps
2007-02-04 16:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by hebblethwaitesgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel you have to protect a boyfriend? Honestly, You can't make anyone love you more or less than they already do. Stop worrying. He obviously came to your house to be with you to begin with!
It's just insecurity that makes you feel this way. I wouldn't give that other girl another thought. She may be pretty, but you have more going for you already.
2007-02-04 16:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have trust issues with your boyfriend..if he isn't interested in other girls, then don't worry about what other girls do, they won't be bothering either of you...but if you don't trust him, then what kind of relationship do you really have...it's only football...and people comming over...you can't act like that all the time...
2007-02-04 16:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PARANOID heaven.
Trust him. If he does stray at least you know early enough in the relationship he wasn't worth it.
If he doesn't stray then you have a good catch.
You can't hold onto something that isn't there or not meant to be there.
2007-02-04 16:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If your boyfriend really loves you then you don't have to worry about losing him to anyone else. If you do and he cheats on your then you don't want someone like that anyway.
2007-02-04 16:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by jimstock60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it he wont leave and if he does hes not worth it now..... dorothy b whats the point of having that link in there?
2007-02-04 16:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by Danny D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that football game was pretty good i guess. Was it the super bowl you were referring too?
2007-02-04 16:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by poker s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think you should trust him a lil more than that and if you cant then dump him now
2007-02-04 16:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationship build on trust,if you don't trust him than let him go.
2007-02-04 16:34:02 · answer #10 · answered by kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋