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I am 25 years old and the single mom of a two year old girl.

Do I still have a chance to find "the one" ?

2007-02-04 16:36:49 · 16 answers · asked by IMLooking4answers2 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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yes you do ! you have plenty of chances i was in the same situation as you but the diffrence is that i was with my hubby for 3 years already and it was hard for me to get over him and i was already use to him. i was scare to meet some one else and scare that i prolly stay single for the rest of my life but no it wasnt like that i found the right one which am very happy with em and i love em with all my hearth he is the best! good luck and dont stress out honey it takes time k.

2007-02-04 16:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

What would make you think you're chances are any different from someone else?
You have a much chance as the next person at finding happiness.
The only difference is the location you look for someone.
Nightclubs, work, dance halls etc..

I've known several single parents and they probably found greater happiness than most single people I know. The men you attract are more likely to be more mature and you will see less of the one night stands (and that's a good thing)

2007-02-04 16:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0 0

YES! I was a single mom at 27 with one child... I dated a couple of bozo's but stumbled across Mr. Right and got married to him when I was 31. We are very happy (I am 34 now).
I had some very strict rules about dating that helped me weed out the morons right away.
1. I never, ever let a man meet my child! I dated my husband for almost 8 months before they ever met and it was almost two years before he ever spent the night on a night that I had my son.
2. I always included my son in big decisions... we set down together and asked if it was OK with him if my boyfriend moved in with us and we sat down and asked if it was OK if we got married...I not only included him but I listened to him.
If he didn't want my boyfriend to spend the night one night then I didn't have him spend the night.
3. I made it very clear that my child comes first!
4. I never, ever compromised myself. I do not do drugs, I do not drink and drive and I do not ride with anyone that has been drinking.

You will find that if you sick to your guns and make your intentions and priorities very clear from the beginning, the bad ones show themselves much faster (so you don't invest to much time in he wrong man) and the good ones, even if it doesn't work out, will respect you for being a good mother and having some self-respect.
Good luck!

2007-02-04 16:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0 0

Absolutely, but your first priority should always be your little girl. There's plenty of great guys that don't have a problem with single moms. I wouldn't recommend introducing them to your daughter until you think there's a good chance of a meaningful relationship. The last thing you want to expose her to is a revolving door of frogs before you find your prince. He's definitely out there!! Keep the faith because you never know where you might meet him.

2007-02-04 16:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0 0

Yes you have a chance some men like girls that have a child look for the right man for you and your get married but get to know him for a year before you get marry and he will help you raise your child but the child have to be comfortable with him first.

2007-02-04 16:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Geez, yes of course you do. I'm a 50 year old guy who thought he would never meet the right one. Well, I did just last year and we are now happily married. So you should never give up hope.

2007-02-04 16:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by joe 5 · 0 0

Of corse you do! To be honest there are guys who dont want to date a single mom, but there are men out there who do and who are good to both you and your child. Dont think you HAVE TO be in a relationship. Just enjoy your life with your daughter and let life happen......Your life shouldn't be on a schedule.....just live.

2007-02-04 16:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by Poptart 5 · 0 0

You will have to look for someone probably 30 or older, but yes of course you can still find the ideal person for you.

2007-02-04 16:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by martin h 6 · 0 0

At 25 you have lots of time so enjoy your life

2007-02-04 16:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by George G 5 · 0 0

Absolutely....Until you start looking like Tammy Faye you have a very good chance of finding love.

2007-02-04 16:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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