Family & Relationships - 4 February 2007

when i said that i am about to go to some out of station where i tried to inform him (who is in abroad) via phone at which time he did not have phone in his hand and later he said you could have left a text that is enough. i will see to it. what does this mean, is he not centimental, or he is careless or he believes in me.

2007-02-04 20:43:44 · 1 answers · asked by rsmm 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 20:43:38 · 5 answers · asked by Rahul S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-04 20:43:15 · 5 answers · asked by yvette_272003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

comfortable. ever since we know that we ll b marrying eventually.. she seems to be bit different. though i asked if she was comfortable and she gave a neutral reply. How should i explore more on it. How should i get closer. We know each other very thorughly. the marriage will still take 4 years .. she s in college now

2007-02-04 20:42:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how will you know that he/she is your soulmate?

2007-02-04 20:42:23 · 10 answers · asked by lanna 1 in Singles & Dating

At first he was telling me about the ordeals btn him and hsi cousin. she is a distant cousin, then i realised he seemed to be doing too much that seemed unnecssary. She is married but my husband does most of her errands and also spends alot of time with her. They now share many things like cars, ATM cards and lap Tops. He stoped talking about her when I told him he neednt do much since she had a hubby. He sends her msgs and makes sure they are deleted, afew times I have got reports and no msg. then she calls him more than five times a day of course many times he deletes the calls and recentely I got a msg to her calling her love and talking about love. Msgs from her address him him as sweetie, baibe etc
He does nto give me atten. any more and even stopped me from calling him that i Was doing a check up on him. once he cam e back at 3am and went back out and called the same lady? Many times When I call he never picks up his phone or other times its off.

2007-02-04 20:42:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf started ignoring me for no apparent reason, although if I called him, he would answer and be pleasant on the phone. I left it a week, during that time, I didn't hear from him, I called him and he said he would call me later as he was at work. 10pm came and I texted him basically saying "if you wanted to end it you should have told me, just bin the stuff I left at your place". No call came, no text. However, he's on MSN alot more often now, and hasn't blocked me, it's like he wants me to see him and initiate conversation. What's he playing at? and do you think he'll call? I'm confused...

This happened a while back and I went back with him. Do you think he's expecting me to do it again, hence why he hasn't bothered calling?! I've known him for 2 years!! He's 38 yrs old, I'm much younger.

2007-02-04 20:41:28 · 13 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Singles & Dating

The turds you go for are clearly not good for you so why go with them? and then say all guys are like that? you know wich guys are good you see them.... you just make that choice to pass by them and go for the guy that will hurt you.... so why make your life bad when it can be good?

2007-02-04 20:41:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've got a friend from high school who I've remained in contact with for years after...

If you can imagine, everytime she calls or I call, it's all about her problems... I always suggest ways of tackling them, which makes her feel better, but she never acts on them....

She's the type of person who feels sorry for herself all the time and feels the world owe's her everything...

She's a very nice gal, but she is just such a drain on the emotions everytime I speak to her.....

Should I just try to be more patient with this gal or perhaps bring the friendship 'back a few steps'...?

Difficult situation when I've known her for so long.

2007-02-04 20:39:50 · 4 answers · asked by B 2 in Friends

2007-02-04 20:39:21 · 6 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

Nothing rude please (unless it's humorous).

2007-02-04 20:38:11 · 28 answers · asked by xBoss 2 in Singles & Dating

Why do hard working, responsible husbands/dads, feel a need to seek female friends to break out of the routine?

2007-02-04 20:37:57 · 6 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need help here. sorry I put this question in the wrong segment/category. my situaiton: all the while doing ok. new ceo is coming, yet the transitional period really killing. everybody uncertains and in the uncertainties, got backstabbed. really hit by it. project swooped away by subordinate and been treated like dirt. the acting is insecure, minority, back stabber and a complete pretender. Help...need the job, what to do?

2007-02-04 20:37:41 · 5 answers · asked by chasing rainbow 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to ask a lady out on a date. Should i (A) call her at work and ask or (B) send her some flowers with my number on for her to call me? Any advice apreciated thank you

2007-02-04 20:36:53 · 24 answers · asked by Boney 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a good friend whos 2 year old marriage is very rocky because he and his wife have conflicting sex drives- My friend tells me he wants it at least twice a week, and he says she never wants it at all- Both are in thier mid 30s. They now sleep in seperate rooms, and havent had sex in 4 months- . I think their marriage is doomed, unless they can reach a comprimise about sex. I had a hunch they would face this problem, as they married before sleeping with each other.
How important is sexual compatibility in a marriage? I think it is a major part- not the only thing, but it ties in with intimacy...
If your spouce decided they didnt want sex anymore, how would that affect the marraige for you? I have a hunch if things don't change, my friend may be filing divorce papers..

2007-02-04 20:36:06 · 17 answers · asked by OctopusGuy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend told me that she is on her period. I was like I guess. But then later I noticed that she gets tremendously moody with me. I told her this and she told me what—you don’t want to talk to me then. And I said—I will call you back when you are off it. And she said what for seven days? What should I do I am a guy I don’t understand that stuff—she is very emotional and moody as if she hates me. Is getting her period the reason why she is like this or does she hate me?

2007-02-04 20:35:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it costs about 800 bucks.. or so

2007-02-04 20:33:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-04 20:32:03 · 15 answers · asked by princess 2 in Friends

2007-02-04 20:30:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anthony 3 in Singles & Dating

me and about 6 friends are going cinema soon and i really like one of the guys how can i make sure i sit next to him in the cinema as i know 2 people that will wanna sit next to him

2007-02-04 20:29:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thanks for all the messages. sorry had to go needed sleep. Went to a friends engagement party on saturday and was the only single one there. (hence the question above). think a duvet day is due for valentines day. x

2007-02-04 20:27:44 · 15 answers · asked by kiscool34 1 in Singles & Dating

If we get along great and I think shes hot and we connect and souls and stuff. and are soooo alike. should i care?

2007-02-04 20:27:22 · 12 answers · asked by wavthrsr 1 in Singles & Dating

He and his female boss stayed in a guest house for a night.when i called him late night i heard her voice in his room.she is a divorcee.when i questioned him after he came back he physically and verbally abused me.I have lost trust since then.I am not able to tolerate him.everytime i see him that incidence comes in my mind.what do i do?

2007-02-04 20:26:57 · 18 answers · asked by distressed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well first of all im not concieted its juss that alot of people do tell me that i am a beautiful girl.... and the guys that tell me most of them want to get with me and really dont know who i am on the inside they juss see the looks, and i juss dont go with anyone and im tired of making them feel bad. is there like a nice way i could say it? that i dont really like them as a boyfriend.

2007-02-04 20:26:36 · 8 answers · asked by js_scooby123 2 in Singles & Dating

I have dated many woman in the past 3 years, and was hoping some of you woman could answer this question for me, because anymore i just can't tell myself?

2007-02-04 20:25:32 · 4 answers · asked by armmachine2003 1 in Singles & Dating

This is really bothering me cause I no that when my age really starts showing that the age is going to make a real difference he says it wont but i am sure it will. I never was looking for a youner man it just happen. And he does adore me. I mean we have a major age difference. Many would say negative if I said how many years difference I am not looking for mean rude negative feed back , Just how can I either move on or except it. My family says if he is good to me hold on to him. But I feel afraid cause I no that with time he will move on and then I will be deeply hurt.

2007-02-04 20:24:49 · 8 answers · asked by babycakes3557 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend are adults. We have been going out for a month now. Every since the beginning of our relationship from day one or two we have been arguing. Now we don’t know what to say anymore. We are analytical and don’t like it when me or her acts smarter then the other as we do at times—we analyze all the time. We argue still and get mad at each other everyday. We cannot call each other without a disagreement or getting angry. It seems like we are incompatible. Maybe will hate each other? Is all this arguments and getting angry everyday normal? What do I do so we stop arguing and getting angry? Even my friends say me and her argue way too much. If she doesn’t want to change that’s okay with me… but what should I do to make it right? I love her a lot and I don’t want her to break up with me. She says it’s me… I feel so stupid like I am the one who starts the arguments. How do I make it right? I am willing to change anything for her.

2007-02-04 20:21:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

CRAPY

my dad is a drunk and her barged into my friends house and came right into her room so i ran down stairs and hid in the bathroom till he left

i cry every night over it

my mom is always stressed and i dont know how to help her.. but it seems that every time i do it goes unapriciated.... its like she see what i dont do for her but she doesnt see what i do for her

my 19 year old brother (dif mom-same dad) think that my dad is normal cuz his mom forced him to be around a drunk parent his entire life just for the money she will get in the end cuz my dad is rich

and my 2 best friends hate each other

GOOD
most my friends r great

im not beliemic

i am spolied rotten (i wish i wasnt)

i can pay for the things i need

2007-02-04 20:21:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband is a very practical person.I know he doesnt need me.He hates everything about me and verbally and physically abuses me.He seems to have only female colleagues.He goes on travel with them till late night.I am not able to cope with this.But have to stay with him for the sake of my only daughter.I do not have parents.

2007-02-04 20:19:23 · 18 answers · asked by distressed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok this just happen to me! i was sitting down in a chair at a gathering and i went to the bathroom, and a girl sat in my chair. i went back to where i was sitting at and asked for the book i was reading, and the sister got up thinking i wanted my seat back (sisters are suppose to sit down and men stand up whenever the chairs are full in our gathering) i've tried telling her it's ok you can sit down but she declined so i sat back in my seat and a couple of people saw what happened and told the whole gathering (including my older brother) what happened. but like i said i wasnt tryin to get my seat back i just wanted the book i had. now im askin the people of yahoo which 1 of these answers was the right thing that the couple that witness the situation between me and the girl do?

A: Go around gossiping to everyone about what happened

B: pull me to the side and let me know what i did was wrong (even though i didnt want the seat back just the book)

C: Point the finger at me

2007-02-04 20:18:23 · 9 answers · asked by esreemwehekkad 1 in Family