ok this just happen to me! i was sitting down in a chair at a gathering and i went to the bathroom, and a girl sat in my chair. i went back to where i was sitting at and asked for the book i was reading, and the sister got up thinking i wanted my seat back (sisters are suppose to sit down and men stand up whenever the chairs are full in our gathering) i've tried telling her it's ok you can sit down but she declined so i sat back in my seat and a couple of people saw what happened and told the whole gathering (including my older brother) what happened. but like i said i wasnt tryin to get my seat back i just wanted the book i had. now im askin the people of yahoo which 1 of these answers was the right thing that the couple that witness the situation between me and the girl do?
A: Go around gossiping to everyone about what happened
B: pull me to the side and let me know what i did was wrong (even though i didnt want the seat back just the book)
C: Point the finger at me
2007-02-04 20:18:23 · 9 answers · asked by esreemwehekkad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i think you should just blow it off. we have these crazy rules in my family too and they get annoying. for instance....
kids always sit on the floor if not enough chairs are available
kids eat first ..then men...and women get what is leftover
women are not allowed in the guys gathering place and children are to stay in the game room until served
no one eats the last serving of anything.... it's rude
lol........ i stopped going i couldnt handle all the rules.
2007-02-04 20:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, gossipping is never the right choice, neither is pointing the finger at someone. The problem with people is that they jump to conclusions and don't find out why situations happen. If there was a question about whether something you did was appropriate or not, someone should have pulled you aside. Then you obviously could have explained what happened.
2007-02-04 23:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by amyceleste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole thing sounds like it was blown way out of proportion. The best answer would be B, but unfortunately that didn't happen. I would say to let this go. It sounds like a big deal is being made over nothing.
2007-02-05 02:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one should gossip but they do because they have no live and need something to talk about so just let that go
familys need rules
if she understands you just wanted the book and she is ok with what happened then everything is ok
but it should have been "B" that is how normal people handle problems
I dont see where you did anything wrong
2007-02-04 21:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why pay attention to such things--tell me will you remember this after say 1 or 2 years
2007-02-04 20:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by sm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just clear up the confusion and if theres still rumours just let it die down. You know the truth and thats all you need to know.
2007-02-04 21:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a problem, this is an awkward situation, that's all. If someone asks you, tell the truth. Otherwise ignore it.
2007-02-04 20:23:29 · answer #7 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where is the prob??? ooo dear come on.....cool dwn.it happend to many times but i never gave any importance.u cannt stop people from talking.
jut cool dwn. u and they ll forget it after sometime.no one can remember such incident for long time:)
2007-02-05 00:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by karabiner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are way over sensitive about the whole thing.
2007-02-04 22:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋