I am going to ask a lady out on a date. Should i (A) call her at work and ask or (B) send her some flowers with my number on for her to call me? Any advice apreciated thank you
2007-02-04 20:36:53 · 24 answers · asked by Boney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(C) send her a text message......A +B are far too cheesy.
2007-02-08 19:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
C) None of the above.
I suggest you take it slow. Approach her and introduce yourself (that’s if you haven’t already). You can say, "Hello, I don't think we have been formally introduced...." or "how is your day at work so far?" or even talk about the weather, "Oh my its blah outside (depending on the weather). Trust me she'll engage in a conversation if she's into you as well.
The flowers and phone call at work is romantic but I don't think you two are on that romantic level yet since you don't even have her number. The flowers may freak her out a bit. After introducing yourself, make yourself available. Ask her out to breakfast (hence: since your name is boney I'm sure you could use the meal.. LOL...j/k), or coffee. I'm sure she would love some coffee. Exchange numbers after that or you can just give her yours but I suggest you take hers.
Whatever you do, don't be nervous...she's only human LOL. But don’t look or seem desperate. Total turn off. Just be yourself and take it one step at a time.
Don't ask her out. Keep going on dates and more dates and when you two finally KISS from there it states that you two are a pair. Asking a girl out seems a bit first grade so let it progress and you'll KNOW when you are dating. Good luck!
2007-02-05 04:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Q & A 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Phone call are not a good idea when it comes to personal stuff...plus it's easier for her to say no over the phone. How about you go to her with the flowers face to face and ask her out?Women love a man that is sure of his feelings and not afraid to express them.
2007-02-05 04:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
call her first and then send the flowers after you have the date.
2007-02-05 04:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by murnip 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
b, and tell her on the note that you would like to go on a date with her and if she feels the same she should call you
The flowers will make her soft and she will at least consider going on a date with you
2007-02-05 04:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Oh I wud maybe send the flowers.. and then later on that day or the next day ring her... saying u sent her the flowers..!! Send flowers annonoumsly she'll be thinking bout them all day!!! Then ring eitehr later in the day or the next day...
2007-02-05 04:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by tiggs 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Don't call her at work it could be embarrassing for her, especially if she works in a gossipy office!!!
I would send her some flowers, and i presume she knows you, then you know where you stand. If she calls you she likes you!!! If she doesn't, move on!!
2007-02-05 04:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
send her flowers at work and make the call yourself. If you ask her to call you, she might not feel it very ok. However, mentalities differ, i might be wrong in her case.
2007-02-05 04:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by Alkahest 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
i reckon a small modern hand tied flower bouquet would be amazing.. sent to her work with a little note in ur handwriting and with a number to contact u. write ur suggested date on it - i.e. meal, romantic drive then stop for a quiet drink... etc. or ask her where she would like to go and to call u.....
so romantic, and there was me thinking romance was dead! lol. good luck. xx
2007-02-05 04:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Cubangirl 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
ok here is how i feel........
calling me at work or sending me flowers at work is bad. i dont want people at work to know my personal life and i dont want my boss to think i am flakey or wasting time. i dont think i'd take it well at all. women are already having to fight off that bosses see them as being to "pro family" and earning respect at work is hard.
meet her after work by leaning up on her car and waiting for her to come out. leave a message at her job to give you a call at her convience (do not say why). just dont cause her problems at work... it is just disrespectful this early in.
2007-02-05 04:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
You shouldn't bother someone at work unless it is an emergency. You send her the flowers with the handwritten invitation and add "if you accept please call---". And if she doesn't then you'll know to leave her alone.
2007-02-05 04:42:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋