At first he was telling me about the ordeals btn him and hsi cousin. she is a distant cousin, then i realised he seemed to be doing too much that seemed unnecssary. She is married but my husband does most of her errands and also spends alot of time with her. They now share many things like cars, ATM cards and lap Tops. He stoped talking about her when I told him he neednt do much since she had a hubby. He sends her msgs and makes sure they are deleted, afew times I have got reports and no msg. then she calls him more than five times a day of course many times he deletes the calls and recentely I got a msg to her calling her love and talking about love. Msgs from her address him him as sweetie, baibe etc
He does nto give me atten. any more and even stopped me from calling him that i Was doing a check up on him. once he cam e back at 3am and went back out and called the same lady? Many times When I call he never picks up his phone or other times its off.
2007-02-04 20:42:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you already know the answer to this. confront him, not her, hes the one thats your concern.
2007-02-04 20:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have no right to confront her. She is no one to you. Confront your husband. He is by law accountable to you and you are to him. Most women get angry with the other woman and forget about the man that they are married to.
However, I definitely feel that you need to speak to him about this. You also need to share his life and be a partner to him in every way. She has now taken your place. You need to force her out and take that place back. Don't be an insecure loose but take control and keep what is yours.
2007-02-04 21:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is truthful because he advised you about her :)) you ought to confront her and then decrease her off that way she knows why you probably did .. i do not thinks its precise for her to be doing that shop her away she is undesirable information .. good success :)
2016-11-02 09:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to make it clear to him that u dont like it..he is taking a wrong turn..and he feels he has an advantage of her being a cousin thats y he is not scared of doing it.. ask him how he wud feel if u wud be doing the same things with a cousin of urs.. or else threaten him to talk to her husband..
2007-02-04 21:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 99 percent sure he is cheating.(expierenced this) im sorry the only thing u can do is get to the bottom of it before it is to late. maybe even talk to her husband or her and ask her to stop calling or u will talk to her husband
2007-02-04 20:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋