My bf started ignoring me for no apparent reason, although if I called him, he would answer and be pleasant on the phone. I left it a week, during that time, I didn't hear from him, I called him and he said he would call me later as he was at work. 10pm came and I texted him basically saying "if you wanted to end it you should have told me, just bin the stuff I left at your place". No call came, no text. However, he's on MSN alot more often now, and hasn't blocked me, it's like he wants me to see him and initiate conversation. What's he playing at? and do you think he'll call? I'm confused...
This happened a while back and I went back with him. Do you think he's expecting me to do it again, hence why he hasn't bothered calling?! I've known him for 2 years!! He's 38 yrs old, I'm much younger.
2007-02-04 20:41:28 · 13 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has been used to ignoring you thinking you will come back again so he doesn't bother calling you anymore. They are right try finding someone new, someone who will appreciate you as you say you are younger many are interested. Two years is a long time to be waiting for someone who will never change. He is taking you for granted taking notice of you when he wants and does not if he doesn't want to. You deserve someone better.
2007-02-04 20:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Shai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life!!!! If he acts like you meant nothing to him....I hate to say it but maybe you didn't. Some guys are just jerks that can't see what great women they have...so they piss on them.Find someone that can appreciate you for the person you are.He is the biggest loser in all of this...not you. Look at it as he has done you a hugh favor...learn your lesson from this and UPGRADE in your next relationship!!!!
2007-02-04 20:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is happy for you running after her, as you did before. And now he is sure he can do anything with you, and will still have you. Dont bother yourself or your mind. Look out girly, there is a world outside yours that is willing to have you free. Dont block him at your list but delete him as not to see him online often and be disturbed. Leave waiting for his call or text, just make your mind up that he is not worth you, since he never tried to understand your feelings. If he really loves you, he will come to you himself, you dont need to run after him. And if he doesnt, then you have to choose your life without him. Whenever online, try get into contact with different other people in chatrooms untill you feel bore and leave the net. And try spedn more of your time with friends or keep yourself busy one way or another, as not to let his thoughts get through your mind, and not feel yourself awaited for his tect or call. Enjoy your life girl, and be carefull for your further steps. Never run after a man, they never understand your true feelings this way, make them run after you!
Good luck!
2007-02-04 20:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by Alkahest 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly it sounds like he doesn't respect you like he should. If a man really loves a woman he'll treat her like a princess, and it sounds to me like he's trying to get you to come crawling back. I think that you need to make a vow to yourself not to go back to him. Not saying necessarily that you immediately start dating other people, but make up you're mind that if he won't call at least call you, that he doesn't deserve you, and stick with it.
If you've known him for 2 years, and he won't even call you about this, then I'd say just try to forget about him.
2007-02-04 20:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by infamousheavyt 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
His madly expecting u to do it again but lets give him a shock of his life.u much younger u will meet plenty.move on,dont call,dont mind what his doing,let him piss off.
2007-02-04 20:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by lady x 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find a new guy Jen!!! The sooner the better! THIS will make him call, and when he does? Tell him to ****-off. Trust me.
2007-02-04 20:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's being very, very casual. I'd say you're right, you mean little to him. Find someone who's actually interested.
2007-02-04 20:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should block him and not make contact with him. You dont need that kinda stress and you certainly deserve more respect!
2007-02-04 20:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he want you to know that he can still exist without your presence.Give it time wait and see if he calls you .You have done enough.IT IS HIS TURN IF HE WANTS YOU.
2007-02-04 20:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
forget about the past
2007-02-04 20:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by laila a 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋