My boyfriend of 5 years...has this ex that he dated for a few months. Shes always posting stuff on her Myspace with him in it, like pictures of when him and her were together, a video she made with him in it at random times, and when i confronted her about it, she told me to mind my own business. How is is NOT my business???? Shes unconsisiderate, and nasty when i try to tell her its not appropriate for her to be posting things like that on her Myspace for everyone and anyone to see. Shes always calling his phone, and i have to be the one to answer them and tell her to stop calling...but she continues to do so. Ive told him MANY times before that if he doesnt do something about it, him and i will have a serious problem...but hes doesnt "have the balls" to tell her to go f*** herself... Ive tried so many different approaches. Ive asked her nicely to stop, and told her i was going to rip off her legs...How do i get rid of her for good? Because i know killing is out of the question lol
2007-02-04 18:50:29 · 6 answers · asked by Jay L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ignore it, she is in fantasy land...Let her dream about what you have and she cant ever get....
2007-02-04 19:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This girl sounds nasty. Give it to him straight. He needs to stop contacting her all together. There is no reason he needs to be contacting her if hes in "love" with you. (or so i assume)
But you also have to think of it this way. Do you talk to any of your exs? And if so, can you also ask yourself why? What do you talk about?
Im more then sure, since were both girls, you hate her guts. But switch then roles. If your talking to exs that he doesnt know about. And later found out. How upset would he be. Honestly?
2007-02-04 19:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by Kryss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear - ripping off her legs?? she could press harassment charges on you for threatning bodily harm ! be careful what you say. anyway - her myspace page is her page so u cant really say anything about that. Your boyfreind might be stil tryin to keep her on the side. I had a guy who never completely broke it off wit me and kept me thinking theri is hope while he got another girfirend and he kept calling me behind her back sayin he loves me and wants sex so i kept calling and she eventually answer the phoen and told me off so thats when i told her off and that her man is keeping me around on purpose. -- forgot to say that when she told me off she said leave my man alone he is ahppy wit me get over it he dumped you a long time ago - she had no idea what was going on behind her back. thats when i told on him and told her to **** off and then next time he called bout 2 hours later after they fought it out i told him im sick of his games to. dont always blame the woman . it can be your mans fault .
2007-02-04 18:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it to him this way. He has a choice, he can hurt her feelings and tell her to back off or he can hurt your feelings by not. Now he has a choice and as much as he doesn't have the balls, chances are he'll realize that you matter more to him and tell her.
2007-02-04 18:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by blhenne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off why not just delete aboth yours and your bf.s myspaces.. so she cant post stuff. and talk to your bf some more abotu how much it bothers you..
2007-02-04 18:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't do anything on her but u can stop ur hubby n advise him.worst to worst,divorce is the final solution.
2007-02-04 18:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋