It is sad to see some people in their 20s feeling bad because they have never had sex. Insted they should feel sorry that they have not loved someone or being loved by someone. One person asked here that he was feeling sorry because he has never had sex.
2007-02-04 18:48:42 · 14 answers · asked by the_young_bride 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Men and women think quite differently about sex. I have a saying which might help -
"The doe has her seasons, but the buck is perennial."
That means that a buck, be he deer, goat or man, is always ready to plants his seed in a female of his species (or sometimes a closely related one) who is in season. Humans are slightly different, but the felt need is there with a male at all times, while a woman isn't always ready for him. With young men who haven't been properly educated about sexual differences, (and that's 99.99 percent of us), the continuous readiness for sex is something confusing and difficult to deal with. Sex education in any country which has religious taboos connected with the sex act is woefully inadequate and distorted, in my view.
Incidentally, unlike one of the answers, sex, or the need for it, does NOT fade with time. I'm 70, and I have at least three women friends who will support me on that one!
2007-02-04 19:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
To love and to be loved is definitely the most important and beautiful thing in the world. Those who feel bad about never having had sex are simply immature. Not that sex is not important but love has to be involved.
There's no greater feeling than loving and being loved, ever.
2007-02-05 02:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
most of them are from india and they arent allowed to love, they have to marry the person their parents tell them to. sometimes it works out but even gay ones marry and then cheat with their own sex all the time. its a sick system. Love is far more important than sex but the way some social systems work, sex is all they have to look forward to because they have no choice in love at all.
2007-02-05 02:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
No. In time sex fades and the physicality of relationships diminishes somewhat. But love can only grow and it something that follows you every day of your life.
I won't consider myself as having lived until I've loved someone and been loved in return.
2007-02-05 03:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by Texas932 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. Love is more important, It's just that sex makes the love even sweeter.
2007-02-05 02:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by TT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is. For me, sex is only as good as it is because it is with the one I love who loves me.
2007-02-05 02:51:54 · answer #6 · answered by Keruma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"to love" and "be loved" is far more important than sex. Sex......well, you can have sex with anyone whether you are in love or not. Sex without love is empty and meaningless.
2007-02-05 03:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its 50/50 in my book. Being loved and having a healthy sexual relationship is important in my book.
2007-02-05 02:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by DVD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would it is a 50-50 things, no love no sex, no sex no love.
2007-02-05 02:53:08 · answer #9 · answered by ButterMilkQueso 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is a joke..... you could love someone with everything you have and that woman will just eventually cheat on you and destroy your inner self..... sex is more important.
2007-02-05 02:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋