why wont a nice guy like you if u have little confidence even though you have good qualities in everything else? like pretty, smart, wholesome, kind etc?? example many nice girls cant attract a good guy like holly berry, christie brinkley,,etc
2007-02-04 17:50:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rejection.
Confident girls can ask any guy out, and aren't scared of rejection.
Similarly, "bad" guys can (only) get girls with low self esteem.
(sigh) as a nice guy with low self esteem, what chances do I have?
2007-02-04 17:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by Alan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, this is no way to live. You should see a doctor who specializes is weight control. Their specialty is called Bariatrics, would be listed in the yellow pages under Physicians, then the specialties are listed under that. Wearing 3 girdles just makes you uncomfortable. One is all that is needed to keep a smoother look. Quit fooling with the pills. Learn to eat properly, get exercise, get help if you don't go to the doctor. Try the YWCA, it is affordable. Don't worry about the guys, do it for yourself. And some guys like overweight girls, but for health reasons, get rid of the pounds. Good look.
2016-05-24 14:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys are often shy with women. This means that they need a lot of encouragement for the woman in order to make friends with her. And only a confident woman is likely to go after a guy she likes and have her way with him.
Women with low self esteem never have the courage to go after a nice guy who is a little shy. They wait passively for the knight in shining armor to come to them and woo them. While the nice and shy guys hum, hee, haw, and wring their hands on the sidelines, the bad guys see the opportunity to take advantage of a good lady. And take advantage of the good lady they certainly do. No self-respecting bad guy can pass up an opportunity to have his way with a passive, compliant, and relationship-needy girl.
2007-02-04 18:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1- girls like confident girls because they can give THEM confidence
2- Bad guys can manipulate and feed their egos on less confident girls.Its also a lot easier to leave them after they have done that.
3-being confident is not that hard...just learn how to love yourself first,regardless of whatever other peoples opinion may be,once you do that you are ready to get the nice guys and shove the bad guys away
Self esteem comes from within not from the outside...
2007-02-04 18:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by ricardo m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love bad guys and bad guys love girls with low self-esteem. These guys can treat them like **** and they take it not believing that they deserve better. Confident girls are usually low maintenance and guys like that. Confident girls usually don't have any serious agendas.
2007-02-04 18:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they have low self esteem too and girls with low self esteem are more vulnerable, which is why they're 'bad' guys. They take advantage of that.
2007-02-04 17:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's HALLE Berry, not Holly. Nice guys like confident girls because they're more challenging. If they can win her over, it's a huge boost to the ego. The bad guys don't want to make the effort.
2007-02-05 03:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
bad guys like girls with low self esteem, because they can control them
2007-02-12 17:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by aabbcc 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'ma bad guy and i still get hoes wit high esteem and low esteem some bitchy some tricky
2007-02-12 13:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by that dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can play them well..and easier
2007-02-04 17:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by happygirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋