And if this happen what is the best way to react?
Woman how would you react if your partner watch pornography but would not want to have sex with you?
2007-02-04 17:52:14 · 13 answers · asked by Sue3612 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He could be looking for ways to enhance his sex life with you. It could be that he is also addicted to porn. But there are also other ways to enhance his sex life by using self-help books or by experiencing with you!
If he is using porn to satisfy his needs rather than meeting your needs with him, and if it becomes a habbit to him to look at porn in replace of you, than that is a problem. That's when you say to him that you are hurt and want him to stop doing what he is doing to you. It is compulsive to him to watch other women and get his satisfaction.
What I would do is put a picture of you and your kids and tape it on his computer screen at the corner of it. So that way, when he starts searching for porn, he can see that he now needs to make a choice to either watch the porn and stay away from it, or with your picture being up there to see it, he will have to choose on what will actually really make him more happy, porn or family.
If he needs help with turning away from porn, he needs to get help and you need to support him. Be there for him.
I would consider on reading, "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" or "The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage".
If he is dealing with an issue that has to do with his past and can't move forward with his life, get him this book called, "Bad Childhood, Good Life".
Forgot to mention on the best way to react, is to stay calm, no yelling, just be polite. You might get an answer from him.
2007-02-04 18:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the guy is so fixed on how the women in the movie looks that he might feel not satisified with their partner, but for me, I would never choose a movie person over an actual physical partner right in front of me. But thats me,,,,,
2007-02-05 02:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is a luscious fantasy, so if that's what your man likes,(along with most other guys on the planet) you should try to be more appealing and sexual.
I enjoy porn just as much as men do...
and I am every bit as appealing.
You may wanna get sexxxy.
Not for him...for yourself...once you become comfortable with your sexuality and confident, you will already start to become sexier. You should really watch with him, it's quite erotic and a great way to get things "up" and rolling. wink. wink.
2007-02-05 02:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something wron with a guy tha cna watch porn and not want to have sex with a woman....I've never seen a guy that wasn't totally turned on by watching porograpj\hic films............
2007-02-05 02:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act dear act now, do something to seduce him, i mean u should know how he likes, wearing some nice sexy lingerie's, or may b just nothing, or may b teasing him in public, by just kissing him or biting him here or there, try it, all the best, it mite b just a phase, may b he is preparing himself for u, to give u best shot, all the best
2007-02-05 02:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by ria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only thing I can say is maybe he wanted to "satisfy" himself without all the xtra work. If not, hes not attracted to you as much as he used to be, hes cheating, or he needs help.
2007-02-05 02:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by Mass Appeal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Three things it might be either you are overweight, he just had sex earlier in the day or he is gay. One of those.
2007-02-05 02:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by MiKe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex has grown boring - use things to spice it up.
2007-02-05 02:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the sex was getting bad and only worse
2007-02-05 06:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would make him more interested im me than the porno...spice things up. walk up to him wearing nothin but your bday suit. or watch it w/him. guys love that.
2007-02-05 02:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋