Do you think I have issues? Or it's just a normal fear? Serious answers only, suckers...get a life and need not reply.
2007-02-04 17:49:30 · 10 answers · asked by Inquisitive_Mind 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its normal fear, not necessarily issues unless you don't have strong feelings towards your partner. Then than can be an issue that needs to be resolved. Unfortunately we don't always stay in love forever and sometimes we have to let go of certain people in our lives to grow and find the person that we truly want to be with. I'm not sure if this is your case, or you are just scared. If you do love this guy don't be, you have been together for 6 years to me thats a marriage! Marriage is not easy but if in this 6 years you have learned to understand your partner, learned to love all those things that bugged you or you hated about him what do you have to lose! Nothing, a piece of paper is not going to change feelings or issues in a relationship, everything will be the same. Ask yourself what do I want? Do I really want to get married? Why don't I want to get married? you only hold those answers... Look within yourself, trust your intuition and believe in yourself...
2007-02-04 17:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The line "suckers get a life and need not reply" says alot about you. If this attitude continues into all parts of you life then maybe that is why it took him 6 years to propose. Being uncertain after 6 years means you already know the answer. NO.
2007-02-04 17:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by BlkJac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just that a new phase of your life is going to begin...and its a big decision no matter u have had been in a long relationship...when smthing new n different is upcoming, fear is quite normal.. But if u r really in love with that person once u accept the proposal u will be relieved of this fear and feel the happiness of lifetime...my best wishes..:)
2007-02-04 18:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by joyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's normal; marriage is a very serious step and even if you feel you really know someone; there's still alot you DON'T know. Marriage takes alot of work; moreso in this day and age. Don't ever forget that song: "Love Will Keep Us Together." You're probably just getting nervous BUT if you have any reason at all to really doubt your committment, then I would really think about it.
2007-02-04 17:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 6 years in a relationship and you are uncertain about accepting a proposal, then you should figure out what the issue is and solve the problem, that is just alot of time and you should figure it out quick before you waste more of someone elses time
2007-02-04 18:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick your dad's butt and run away. that's a extreme recommend. you will in no way be satisfied in existence in case you marry this guy. i think a father of three infants on the age of fifty six is marrying you simply by fact he needs to fulfill his sexual urges. there is not something incorrect in asserting no to your father. If he's being concerned dad he will understand and that i think of your father is egocentric, not you simply by fact he's calling you to marry a guy thrice your age. you're only 20 so i think you're nonetheless in college. you will hit upon many youthful and lot extra sensible husbands. And please don't be allured which you would be living in Australia as somebody has suggested. he will make your existence hell. What if he confiscates your passport? He can do each little thing in a foreign places united states of america the place he's familiar with each little thing and you be attentive to not something. in case you do not opt to burden your dad then you are able to seek for genuine lover who will marry you for no dowry yet love. and that i think your dad isn't a being concerned and loving dad simply by fact he wouldn't have asked some thing like this interior the 1st place. Your dad, not you, might desire to sense to blame. Please do not marry this fifty six 365 days previous intercourse hungry animal. not in basic terms he yet even his 3 infants will take turns to rape you in the event that they're all adult males. Our government oftentimes supplies classified ads in newspapers and tvs that don't flow after NRIs interior the desire which you will stay in some extra sensible-off united states of america. yet i think of that's a wastage of money. And nonetheless in case you sense to blame then you are able to initiate earning and help your dad and tell him that when you have gotten sufficient funds you will get married. And at the instant it is not that difficualt to get a job. only initiate searching for interest on your area and you gets a job. yet ultimately it is your decision yet i will lower back recommend do not ruin your existence.
2016-09-28 10:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by durrell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal...I mean, You have to be sure that you love this person, and that you are willing to spend a long time next to this person, this is what you want. Anyways, to be afraid is normal. marriage is something new in your life. most ppl get nervous..
2007-02-04 17:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by happygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a big step.
do you want to live with him for the rest of your life is a big decision.
don't accept and don't marry if you are not sure.
don't feel pressure because you have been dating 6 years.
follow your gut instincts..
good luck.
2007-02-04 17:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by j_mang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who in their right mind would wait 6 years for a marriage proposal??? NNNNEEEEEXXXXXTTTTT!!!!!!
2007-02-04 18:38:57 · answer #9 · answered by YourAnswer... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not normal or abnormal...it just means either you're not ready to marry that person or that person isn't the one for you.
2007-02-04 17:54:01 · answer #10 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋