I know men are clueless but why are some men soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo damn stupid when it comes to how females feel? Men, the woman wants you to be clear on how you feel. Dont wait around for her to tell you first. By the time she tells you, she is tired of waiting for you and probably has moved on. Dont make her tell you first. If you like her, tell her. Dont let her be the last to know.
2007-02-04 17:52:36 · 10 answers · asked by stacy s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what I'm getting at is why do men tell all their friends that they are into a woman before they tell her?
2007-02-04 18:05:29 · update #1
Why? Coz they are...And contrary to popular opinion, men are weaker than women...they are scared of rejection, emotional attachment, responsibility, loss, and the list could go on...And sometimes they just like to play dumb and live with the stereotype so they could get away with things...Sometimes it's cute until it gets on your nerves.
2007-02-04 18:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Inquisitive_Mind 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight... Women think men are stupid because we can't read how women are feeling?
You don't want to tell us, you'd rather have us read your minds? I'm marveling at women's communication skills right now or lack there of.
Sweetie, your gonna have to understand that in a man's world, we have an order of priority of things. Whether or not you have a bad salad during lunch time is not high priority on our list and so we're not gonna check for that when we see you. We don't relish in the minutia. We're all about productivity and getting the task at hand done. We relish in the big picture see?
Your hormones may tell you to obsess over your feelings but we don't have that curse you see? So we don't see you as the center of the world like you do see?
So call us stupid if you will, but ask yourself how important are those feelings? If they are really important wouldn't you communicate them to us verbally hmmm?
Instead of asking us to turn on our mind reading helmets cause you know we all have them.
2007-02-04 18:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatly, current statutes governing sexual harrassment laws make it possible for a woman to charge a man with this offence when he has merely expressed his intrests in her.
Once a man has recieved such a charge on his record, it is nearly impossible for him to obtain gainful employment or to ever get another date in the future.
Thus, men must not be very careful to aviod this charge and ensure that a woman is intrested in them before making the slighest move, or better yet, just wait for her to make the first move.
2007-02-04 18:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
because men lets their penis do all the talking!!! lol....
no, guys are just not as sensitive as girls are...i mean girls do expect a lot from guys...and for a single-minded species..it's hard for the male species to accomodate how situations are dealt with...
and if you think you're the last one to know about his feelings...then its prolly a good thing...you see guys relate more to their friends and don't like being in an uncomfortable situation... he must be sincere if he tells people the way he feels about you and not tell you because he's just too nervous to let it all out in the platter..... give them enough credit....when it comes to love...they are like kids at approach but really....they too feel emotional and etc. when it comes to love....
can't live with em'/can't live without em'...
-did you know that men actually score higher in IQ tests than women-
2007-02-04 19:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by badluck13b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 09:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by anirudh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True, many men are guilty of this, but keep in mind that many women are always changing thier minds about things and are always keeping us guessing, and then when the time of the month comes, , all hell breaks loose and for those few days, we steer clear or them.........goes both ways.....
2007-02-04 17:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't ever "assume" men should know this or that because the truth is, they don't. Hate to say this, but alot has to be explained to them. I used to get so mad because I just felt my husband should know how I felt all the time, but the truth is, he didn't. YOU HAVE TO TELL THEM INLANGUAGE THEY WILL UNDERSTAND. Sorry guys.
2007-02-04 17:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by the sound of the question, he made the correct choice and didnt say anything, I would say a very smart move.
2007-02-04 18:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by countryboy1959 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY SHOULDN'T IT BE LADIES FIRST???
Why don't you let him know?
And as to why we're so stupid?
It's because there's no way ANYONE could understand women!
2007-02-04 17:59:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
shut up dont put it all on us guys u chicks cud speak up u know always putting it on us as an easy out
2007-02-04 18:00:06 · answer #10 · answered by spayhappy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋