go to another guy's house, cook lunch for him, and watch movies with him on his bed by yourselves? QUESTION IS FOR GIRLS. thanks.
2007-02-04 16:57:43 · 11 answers · asked by space monkey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
New detail: you've only known this guy for a few month from school, and this is the first time you've seen each other outside of school.
2007-02-04 17:13:33 · update #1
No. That is stepping over personal boundaries. The intentions aren't legitmately "just friends".
2007-02-04 17:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by Keep It Sane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I do stuff like that with guy friends all the time. I don't think it's a big deal at all. If something were going to happen between a friend and I, it would have happened ages ago not years into the relationship. I often sleep in the same bed with guy friends and even snuggle with them (especially after a very big night).
However, I can see that some guys might get jealous in this situation (although I personally wouldn't put up with this kind of possessive insecure bs), so maybe the best thing is to clear it with your boy before doing it... I think the fact that you're asking the question shows that you may be unsure as to whether it's okay or not (for you), so when in doubt I would say not to do it rather than have drama later.
2007-02-05 01:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Snow White 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My son's irlfriend do that all the time, they are both 18 years old and I feel that they are too young. As a mother, I am concern and I made a deal with my son that they can watch a movie as long as the door is open.
Be careful, your young abviously, think of your future
2007-02-05 02:06:10 · answer #3 · answered by trykindness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Visiting, having lunch, watching movies. Nothing wrong with any of these things. Don't you visit your friends, have lunch with them and watch movies with them occasionally?
2007-02-05 01:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depending on who the guy was.. my boyfriend trusts me to have friends of the opposite sex so if he was just a friend nothing more yes but if there were any kind of hanky panky on the mind of the guy then nope not even going there..
2007-02-05 01:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mouseling 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO !!! ughh, why are you doing all this for another guy when you have your boyfriend? be true to him, dont mess up what you already have...unless youre unhappy with your b-friend then straighten that out!!!
2007-02-05 01:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by Future Ms. Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um i would but not the movies part
2007-02-05 01:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by GiiGii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont tell me that this happened,,,,,,,,,,,,,dRop her like a bad habit before you get hurt worse. Sounds like T-R-O-U-B-L-E to me. I would never do that to someone I have committed to and called my "boyfriend."
2007-02-05 01:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by getoffmyback 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy was gay and my best friend then yes, other wise no!!
2007-02-05 01:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-02-05 01:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by cilla1a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋