Me and this guy have been flirting for a few weeks. I could never figure out if he liked me for sure or not but the other night he kissed me. We were leaving the bar after a few hours ( he had only had three beers) and I walked to my car and he was walking to his but as I was looking for my keys he suddently walked up and said I have been wanting to do this for a while. Then he kissed me. Not like a peck but a really deep kiss. Afterwards I told him I had been wanting him to do it for a while. He kissed me again and I said goodnight and got in my car. That was tuesday but he still hasn't called me or messaged me. What is up with that?
2007-02-04 16:58:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know he has my number but I don't have his.
2007-02-04 17:07:55 · update #1
ooh, that's hot. (can't believe i just said that, I didn't mean to quote paris hilton) I think, wait til you see him again, and see how he acts. I guess since you were flirting for awhile you have seen him even though you don't have his number. maybe next time you should say, "call me." guys are stupid and if you don't tell them what to do sometimes they don't know. in fact, next time say "call me tomorrow." just to make it clear when the deadline is.
good luck! post again after the next time you see him =P
2007-02-08 09:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by ♥perishedmemories♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In truth it is prolly one of three things... worse case scenario the kiss was kind of a bust for him and he is genuinely not intersested, but he did kiss you the second time... second it may also be that he is shy and is unsure of his next move... third and most likely when you left so soon after he kissed you it was prolly a lil disheartting and prolly confused him. He may think that you dont have feelings for him. If you do truely like this guy there must be a way for you to talk to him on the phone or in person and find out for certain where he stands. And this time i recomend getting his number, it makes things easier.
2007-02-04 17:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by Smurfy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you guys were leaving a bar, I'm going to assume he was intoxicated. He probably needs some time to digest what had happened. There is a posibility that he has lost interest. Give him a call. If he doesn't call back then you know where he stands. Put your feelers out there and figure out what's going on. Intuition alone can't solve this one.
2007-02-04 17:03:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have sent a mixed message. i have been waiting for you to kiss me but only once gotta go bye. is that what you did. or this is just him playing the game you cant call the next day but you cant wait to many days blah blah blah. call him if you want to talk to him.
2007-02-04 17:04:21 · answer #4 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it took that long to kiss ,I say he must be a bit shy .Maybe you should call him.If he dont wanna talk call me.I have yahoo messanger
2007-02-04 17:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by mrbud4202002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very curious behavior. I do not know WHAT he's thinking or why he hasn't called. I would text him!
2007-02-04 17:02:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE WHEN HE KiSSED U iTS DiDNT FEEL LiKE HE TH0UGHT iT W0ULD
0R MAYB HES WAiTiNG F0R U T0 CALL HiM
2007-02-04 17:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was drunk and he got a little off ya.
Don't expect to hear from him.
2007-02-04 17:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is what it is. Maybe he wonders why you haven't called.
2007-02-04 17:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by Keep It Sane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not call him and ask that...if you're old enough to drink then you're old enough to be an adult and ask another adult what he was thinking....
2007-02-04 17:01:21 · answer #10 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋