We had a fight in Nov 06. He got an apartment after living with his mom for so long. He's divorced 2 kids. We was having issues with alot of things. His ex cheated so now I deal with alot of his insecurities but never treat him like this. He is always the one calling and bugging, poping up when I live 2hrs away. Then when he got his apartment, I was intolerable. He was acting bigger, better or something, he felt good about himself and was acting different with me. This fight was about a phone call and he refuse to explain it to me. I walked out then came back and demanded the money I lent him. I was pushing trying to get in his house he was pushing me out then tried to push me down the stairs. Just then the conversation came up, he claimed he never tried to push me down the stairs and got angry. That night after I left he called the police and tried to do a restaining order which didn't happen. Tonight I said if you love someone you wont do such a thing. I will never forget this
2007-02-04 16:56:44 · 14 answers · asked by Smile 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Who cares who is right, why do you want to be with this guy.
You live two hours away, find a better candidate closer to home and leave this loser to his own devices.
Oh, and get a grip on yourself too. You instigated this door shoving match, so you have as much of an anger issue as he does.
Neither one of you are right.
I believe it would be wrong for either of you to try to continue with the other at this point in time.
2007-02-04 17:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is alot involved here.....if I understood all of this you had a fight over a phone call so if this all is still going on over a phone call that was several months ago is he worth getting angry over still? We all lend money to someone in our lifetime, nothing wrong with that you are a nice person but you will have to get over the fact that he hasnt given it back to you yet and probley never will. He sounds like he is happy to be living farther away from you now and that he wants to get on with his life. You should do the same. Maybe you should start thinking about dating again and then he may see what he is missing but just be careful as you both sound a little bit unstable at this time.
2007-02-05 01:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
was he really trying to push you down the stairs or just out of his doorway?
But you're right.. If he loved you he wouldn't be pushing you out of his house or calling the police on you. Who cares who was right? The two of you fight too much. You may still feel like you're friends but it seems like you're hurting eachother more than doing any good. Find someone new and say good riddance to this guy.
2007-02-05 01:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by •√¡rgő• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has no interest in being fair with u, he acts bigger and better now because his ego has been boosted, he has someone else in his life now. he is trying to get the restraining order so u can't see what he is doing. emotionally he was already broken before u entered his life. if u love someone u will try to protect them, u will be fair and repay a debt, he is cheating on u and thinks because he now has someone else he can treat u as he pleases. he feels he owes u nothing, so please distance yourself from him, he has no conscience or character, as evidenced by his actions. just be more careful next time, make better choices, don't be too much in hurry to get someone new, as being in a hurry sometimes causes us to make the wrong choices.
2007-02-05 09:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was not happy with himself or the relationship from the beginning. Chalk it up to a bad relationship and move on before it turns into bigger and more expensive troubles.
2007-02-05 01:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if he tried to push you down the stairs. There is never an excuse for abuse. You don't need him. Drop that zero!
2007-02-05 01:21:30 · answer #6 · answered by karen_crawl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well lets see here. First you complain that he is bugging you. Then you get all pissed off about a phone call he gets which really is none of your business if he chooses to not let it be. You have no right to try and force your way into his house. I don't think either one of you love each other. Love doesn't act that way, toddlers do.
2007-02-05 01:03:45 · answer #7 · answered by sdo3lg 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I can't believe you don't see all the red flags here.
End it with this guy, kiss the MONEY you lent him goodbye, and find a good man.
I can't believe you lent a man money. Never do that.
2007-02-05 01:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him! He is no good for you and doesn't deserve you. He sounds nuts or incredibly immature. And I hope you will never forget this either, until you are older and are happy. Then toss his memory aside because it won't be important. No need to look back once you are happy. @8-)
2007-02-05 01:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So what is your question? You have wasted x amount of months / years on a complete psychopath. Wake up and stop wasting the rest of your life.
2007-02-05 01:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋