I have a girl friend and intimate fried (he is my best fried for long period) usually we will be together on weekends in my Apartment. But some times I am busy with my job and I will not be in my home. But they met and spend a lot time in my home even with out my knowledge. I am not comfortable with such type of relation, because, if a guy and lady spend long time together things may change. I think like this. Am I correct or wrong? Even Some times after we spent a lot in my home she go with him (left me alone). What shall I do to stop their relation? I fear if I upset both of them if they are not engaged in such type of activities. Please tell me the truth?
2007-02-04 16:57:07 · 7 answers · asked by HOke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she isn't telling you, there is a reason she is keeping it from you. If she told you, then I'd think she just sees him as a friend. Keep that in mind.
2007-02-04 17:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by Keep It Sane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right!
It doesn't have to be any impropriety to be wrong. The appearance of impropriety is enough to get a lawyer disbarred.
Let them know it doesn't look right for them to go out with out you. Let her know it doesn't look right for her to spend so much time with your room mate with out you. If they get too upset about it, you are right, there is something going on between them. If they respect your feelings, they will quit.
Give your friend the chance to tell you if they have been "seeing" each other. If she is cheating on you, give her the boot. Good friends are hard to come by, but a good friend should have told you about the cheating girlfriend.
She's either your girlfriend or his. She can't be both. Tell her to do things with her girl friends when you are not available. I guess the best way to say it is, "If you spend enough time in a barber shop, sooner or later you are going to get a hair cut." Get my drift.
There is no way a normal man or woman would put up with their boy friend/girl friend spending that much time with their best friend with out them being around. Just doesn't happen.
2007-02-04 17:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Rut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little fishy to me. You had better take your friend aside and tell him how you feel. Girls come a dime a dozen and if you guys have been friends for that long you both better give that Ho the boot. No matter what team up with your buddy on this one because sometimes it's not really the guys fault if the hoochie is throwing herself at him.
2007-02-04 17:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by DropTopAle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you should be able to talk to your gf and your friend about such things. dont let it get to you and then explode in anger.
you have to say something. why do they leave you alone and why do they spend so much time alone in your home? talk to both of them right away. peace
2007-02-04 17:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE, chances are they are sleeping together already and rule number1 don't trust your friends around your woman. Dump them both!!!!!!
2007-02-04 17:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its going to be hard as hell for you to get an honest answer, but its worth it to talk to your friend and ask him if somethings going on between them, also tell him it kinda bothers you for them to be so close ... you'd only be lying to yourself if u didnt tell em
2007-02-04 17:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by groovy_dudde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might need to ask someone to 'visit' her when your at work because this looks bad. or place a hidden camera somewhere. if they are as close as you make out then you need to find out.
2007-02-04 17:10:29 · answer #7 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋