Family & Relationships - 3 February 2007

I'm currently with a guy who is 10 years older then me i'm 21 this year, but after going out a few times and communicating with him. I realised that we are from different backgrounds and i found it weird when going out together with him as i felt that he is too mature in looks for me. His behaviour and fashion sense don't seem to be the real bf i want, looks a bit old not like 31, although he have gd career, drives, have good education and live in condominium. He said he will take care of me forever, but i really mind a bit on his looks. I thought of breaking up with him but i don't know how to tell him. Should i??? Frankly speaking until now i still have feelings for my guy friend whom i know quite long and share a lot of things with one another. I did not tell him i went out with bf yet. I know breaking up sure hurt bf but i also don't want it. I think i'm not ready to settle down and have a relationship. I think that being single may be the best choice for me. Please advice me how??

2007-02-03 19:55:04 · 10 answers · asked by no name 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 19:54:36 · 14 answers · asked by Queen of Happy Civilization 1 in Family

Why is it that people do this??? They seem so sincere yet their actions don't prove it. Answer if you've done this to someone and explain why. thanks!!!!

2007-02-03 19:54:20 · 8 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Friends

-don't have a boyfriend, never had one

-hate college neighbors who are always partying and being loud and snobbish.

-mom and I aren't that close and sometimes we don't understand each other

-bro hates me because one time he thought I ignored him so he decides to get revenge and give me the cold treatment. He's 27.

2007-02-03 19:53:44 · 12 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Family

2007-02-03 19:52:33 · 6 answers · asked by glossy, flossy, & fly 2 in Singles & Dating

when it comes to looking/finding a man/women? Why do we want to have someone that looks like Brad Pitt or Eva Longoria when we know we aren't going to get them..... I know I have high standards but do others try and go above their statis and actually do find happiness or are they more game players - better looking people -because they know more people look and they have more options/opportunities....

2007-02-03 19:52:27 · 5 answers · asked by sexy rack 2 in Singles & Dating

Fights are mainly financial and about who is paying what from the wedding.
Pressure from family.
If we are right for each other.......
Now wanting to make a mistake......Its so scary.......Help!

2007-02-03 19:52:15 · 15 answers · asked by Ciara 1 in Weddings

Guys, will you tell a girl your personal stuff? like, if the girl was teasing whether you have someone you are fond of, you actually tell her that you do, just that the girl you are fond of is attached and you cant possibly go after her. If the girl ain't really your close friend, is it trying to hint at something else?

2007-02-03 19:51:28 · 8 answers · asked by isabella 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this question sounds really complicated, but what I want to know is if any of you that are married have ever had temtations with a close friend outside of your relationship. I was introduced to a friend through my husband a few years ago. I love my husband to death and would NEVER and I repeat NEVER cheat on him! I am, however struggling with some feelings that I can't seem to get rid of for our close guy friend of ours. I do not know if this feeling is reciprical or not and I don't care. However, I have a hard time admitting to myself that I feel this way, let alone tell my husband or this guy. I just want to get rid of these feelings and not keep thinking of our friend in a way that is not just as friends. Please just give me some encouragement or advice concerning if you think I should tell my husband or talk to someone else about this. I have prayed about this and I trust God will help me through these temtations.

2007-02-03 19:51:12 · 21 answers · asked by runner_chick 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-03 19:50:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

...he's not a happy drinker or 1 that falls asleep...it makes him become a p**s-taking ***** making my life hell.spends£30/40 a week on stella, plus every weekend mdma, tried talking /reasoning/helping/threatening/..his dad an alcoholic,says he can't help it! kids noticing we not getting on..my2eldest from previuos marriage-their dad turned to hrd drugs&booze, told my partner not putting them thru it again-we have another child between us.given him ultimatum today -3choices-get a grip,knock booze on head lets start afresh/ leave for a month&sort head out/ or if cant resolve leave permanently. he says dont wanna leave the baby - told him wont have to if gets a grip! hes in bed thinking about it. at end of tether. i shoved him across kitchen yesterday- but then in past hes shoved me or grabbed me too tight so i dont feel bad as my patience snapped &he's verbally aggressive to me lots!he's nice to kids but spends little time with them,preferring to sit in 'den' and drink!!! help!!!

2007-02-03 19:46:29 · 11 answers · asked by hedgewitch 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-03 19:46:25 · 7 answers · asked by rusalka 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-03 19:45:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get anywhere since a lot of girls put out.

2007-02-03 19:44:54 · 5 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy.He always used to talk to me. Then one day he stopped talking to me as much. It was like he would hardly talk to me for two weeks and then he was back to normal again. Another thing i have noticed is that when we used to talk he's look at me for a little too long. so much so that i woud have to look away.Now sometimes i feel that he avoids eye contact with me.Not all of the time just sometimes.I've seen him looking at me a few times. He'd look and then look away a few times and sometimes when i see him looking at me he won't look away.He smiles often when we talk and it seems as though he tries to get my attention physically.And he teases me. and brings me into conversations with other people or enters my conversations with other people.So why does he talk to me sometimes and not others?i'm confused

2007-02-03 19:44:13 · 4 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

whats your best experience with online dating?

2007-02-03 19:43:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you deal with it? It would help me if you can be honest? PS I am not gay and never have been. Is it true that most people have this during puberty? Please don't insult. WWJD

2007-02-03 19:42:29 · 11 answers · asked by Vincent W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well each and every day i been getting upset and i do not know how to make my self happy again.Please help me?!i been going threw some very hard time latly.And i just need advice on how to cheer up.Well my dad died last year in 2005 and witch it is 2007 right now and just can't stop crying.And my mom is going out with this one person that is rewing my life and so is his son.My mom does not care about me and she thinks this one guy's son is a angel.And witch i think he is very rude to me like he looks on the computer when i am chatting on yahoo messanger to my friends my mom said stop taking the computer away from him let him see.But that is very rude and his son been checking my e-mails and now when he told his dad and my mom of what was on my e-mails they been embarrassing me a whole lot latly.I just don't know what to do.every thing is bothering me latley and it is also getting to me in a upset way.Please help me?What should i do?and i am 14 years old.and his son is 10 years old.

2007-02-03 19:42:24 · 4 answers · asked by - Allison 6 in Family

She use to be a coworker and we barely know each other. I asked her out to dinner and she accepted. I think, she thinks this dinner is more of a chilling type of thing and not like a date. So I'm confused of either getting her flowers or not. If I do and she thinks of it the wrong way I'm afraid it might ruin the whole day.

2007-02-03 19:40:58 · 11 answers · asked by Joe B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 19:40:33 · 9 answers · asked by Thalia V 1 in Singles & Dating

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also threw a ball up piece of paper at my face then turned away really fast. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. what should i do?

2007-02-03 19:40:32 · 8 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you select the gender of your baby, if the procedure to do so was cheap and readily available?

2007-02-03 19:37:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I shall be delighed for your kind help.

2007-02-03 19:35:49 · 5 answers · asked by arya s 1 in Friends

Is it bad if u go out wit ur best friend ex? but she broke up wit him and he asked me out is dat bad or not

2007-02-03 19:34:56 · 21 answers · asked by <3 LALA <3 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 19:33:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

then tells me lets keep writing to eachother??? :(

2007-02-03 19:33:11 · 14 answers · asked by jojo 5 in Singles & Dating

I live in PAk n im a muslim too..i ve got no problems of dat sort....peace out

2007-02-03 19:31:52 · 13 answers · asked by AX 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been going out with my boyfriend for a few years now. He has a little sister that is 4 years old. The little girl is very social at times, but she is rather annoying. Even her older cousin's find her an annoying brat. She throws ridiculous tantrums over little things like candy and cartoons. She drinks soda and eats candy way after her bedtime and is very disrespectful to everyone. It's her way or the highway. I've gotten my bf to notice the issue. I know my bf's brought it up to his parents’ attention several times, but they make few attempts to correct her and quickly give up. I may not have a right to change her life, but she is getting out of hand and it is only becoming worse with time. How can I help them help her be more respectful and understanding? Or how can I help her myself?

2007-02-03 19:31:45 · 6 answers · asked by Zeda 1 in Family

2007-02-03 19:30:36 · 18 answers · asked by Miserable mother 1 in Weddings

ok ma boyfriend is 14 and im 12 is it bad for him to go out wit me or it really doesnt matter the age

2007-02-03 19:30:17 · 13 answers · asked by <3 LALA <3 1 in Singles & Dating