Why is it that people do this??? They seem so sincere yet their actions don't prove it. Answer if you've done this to someone and explain why. thanks!!!!
2007-02-03 19:54:20 · 8 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Many years ago my best friend invited me to Diwali celebrations at her parents home. During the evening I asked if I could see her mother’s sari collection (am fascinated with them) and I was escorted into her bedroom and let there to peruse these garments.
My friend’s father entered the bedroom and started talking to me about the history of each piece, as some where inherited. I became slightly uncomfortable with him and asked to excuse myself. He blocked the doorway and pressed me against the wall and practically licked my entire face.
I dragged myself through the remainder of the evening and got home as soon as I could. I never accepted another invitation again and I can’t tell her why. She adores her father and this would hurt her terribly. So I would rather loose her friendship than hurt her family.
I miss her still.
2007-02-10 19:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
missing some one is the hardest thing of all parts, yea, you knew that you missed them (totally missed them) but yet you don't want to keep in touch with them, it is simple, they don't want you to know that they love you.. missing someone means there is love, a big one, if you doesn't love someone, how come you missed them, am I right?? Basically, this will happen when they think it is ridiculous to love that person for some reasons... they just don't want the person to know, that they love you so much.. that's the reason.. I think.... but believe me, it is so suffering, you missed someone so much, but you didn't tell them... inside, the heart are throbbing with painful feelings... hoping that the person will stand in front of you, but it is impossible, because they can't....
2007-02-04 06:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by myself I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship takes work and most people don't realize this and take it to heart. It takes work to call someone, catch up, re-find things you have in common and to recreate the friendship. Most people think to themselves yea it would be nice if i talked to this or that person... but their saying that in the context that it was easy ... and it rarely is.
2007-02-04 04:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by jonjon23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id done that i guess i was just scared of what they would be like after a long time but its always best to keep in touch
2007-02-04 04:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by Diego6Fthat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea why i do it. I tell myself I'll get around to it but i think that now its too late to call that person. I regret not doing so earlier.
2007-02-04 03:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have done it to my first BFF and my best guy friend
but i never called them bc i always had a thing for my guy friend and my BFF meant my life and i can never go back and see them so we just lost touch
2007-02-04 04:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by [[♥case-face♥]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They afraid
2007-02-04 04:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya. I did it. (personal reason) cant tell.
2007-02-04 03:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by || SMI || 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋