She use to be a coworker and we barely know each other. I asked her out to dinner and she accepted. I think, she thinks this dinner is more of a chilling type of thing and not like a date. So I'm confused of either getting her flowers or not. If I do and she thinks of it the wrong way I'm afraid it might ruin the whole day.
2007-02-03 19:40:58 · 11 answers · asked by Joe B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if you avoid the 12 long-stemmed-roses and go for a mixed bunch of nice-smelling flowers it'll be fine. In fact, I think it's a wonderful gesture. Just explain it in a light-hearted way, like "I wanted toget you potpurri, but they were out." This way she'll know it's just a friendly gesture. I would welcome such from a guy friend, and wouldn't automatically think it's a date.
2007-02-03 19:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that she doesn't think of this dinner as a date, then maybe the flowers are not a good idea. It would make the situation very awkward. Maybe just see what happens at the first date and bring the flowers at the next date when you are a bit more sure of what she thinks.
2007-02-04 03:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so sweet. Humans, such as we are though, it might be best to take it a little easy at first. Just have a nice dinner, then give her flowers on the second date. Bless you and have a great time!
I've got to say, I do really like Geraldo's answer too. If you give her flowers, how about a small, subtle bouquet?
2007-02-04 03:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by itry007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a gentleman and bring her some flowers anyway. Tell her you've just brought them as a friendly gesture to brighten her day. It's always nice to receive flowers or a little gift.
2007-02-04 03:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, for this occasion...don't get her flowers...but, after you've had dinner....ask her to go out with you again, then you can bring her flowers that time!
2007-02-04 03:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Joe, how sweet. Yes, give her flowers. How romantic. If she does not want them, send them to me.
2007-02-04 03:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-04 03:48:08 · answer #7 · answered by Perfection 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't get flowers if I were you... Take her out, and see how it goes.
2007-02-04 03:45:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she doesn't think it's a date - better not
2007-02-04 03:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if u do it sounds kinda needie the dinner is good enough. remember to tell her how pretty she looks.
2007-02-04 03:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by meggie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋