Family & Relationships - 3 February 2007

My son is 2 months old and the father and I are not together. He is 26 years old. There is a mutual desire not to be in a relationship with each other. He is Hispanic and lives with his family and I think they have nasty habits (house not clean, pets everywhere, dirty floor, a lot of children, etc.) I am wondering at what age should I let my son go over his house without me?

2007-02-03 20:40:21 · 23 answers · asked by Jade 3 in Family

a guy slips in the tongue when your kissing??? or is it just guys who get off on that???

2007-02-03 20:38:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if not then is any other person which is in her mind or not yet decided

2007-02-03 20:34:21 · 17 answers · asked by lovydhir 1 in Weddings

My parents know that she is still alive but they have lost touch - no ill feelings, just lost touch.

My God Father is still in contact and attends family gatherings.

I don't think it is fair that my God Mother has not sent me birthday or Christmas gifts all these years.... it adds up to approximately $500.

I can easily locate her. Should I contact her regarding this?

2007-02-03 20:33:30 · 13 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Family

I met a great girl, online...about 6 or 7 months ago...we both really liked eachother but I had issues meeting with someone I met from the internet. I was worried about what people might think, she eventually got fed up and said that "she has to let go". That was yesterday. I was in such a state I opened up and my parents said to me that all along it shouldnt have mattered how we met...but that we met. It's like the curse is lifted, opening up has just made me not care about opinions of others and just go and see her, but I don't know how to take the next step to getting her back on my side. I'm so ready for it...ironically at the time she probably isn't, any help?...please...

2007-02-03 20:31:58 · 11 answers · asked by CJ 1 in Singles & Dating

Hands up who believes in this? what goes around comes arond. do good things n good things happen? do bad things n ur F@#*ed?

2007-02-03 20:31:27 · 14 answers · asked by stevieglenwright 3 in Singles & Dating

i am like. i cant explain how much i love this girl. she doesent know it. i do. and i wanna know if she likes me back. what are things she might do if she likes me. or avoid doing to make it look like she doesent. im curiuse. if she doesent like me then i will ask her out just to be sure and see. but what are some things she might do?

2007-02-03 20:30:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I have something, he might say to his friend if he has any but he never asked me. One time he shouted that he needed a pencil so I gave him a pencil. He never had the nerve to ask me because we sit next to each other.

2007-02-03 20:29:26 · 5 answers · asked by Questions 3 in Singles & Dating

Back in High School...a bunch of friends and I played strip spin the bottle..some girls ended up nude..I just ended up topless but...now I'm married and my husband and I have a mutual friend that played that game with us like 8 years ago...

We were at a gathering and betweeen us he just kind of reminded me like, "don't you remember I saw your breasts?" and I'm like,"So what!" "their just breasts big deal!" he like has a girlfriend and everything..so its not like he doesn't see breasts consistently...but my question is...Are breasts that big of a deal for men? If so, why? Is there somekind of I don't know...?? how can I word this? Do they feel it means something if you let them see them..? We were kids when this happened but common now..It didn't mean anything to me..we were just being young and stupid.. my breasts arent even that big I'm like 5ft...110 lbs 32B..??

2007-02-03 20:28:43 · 12 answers · asked by 00666 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Mostly Chatter r not open hearted. They always hide every importat thing frm them ( like their pic and c.no). I know it is not easy to trust any1 in 3-4 meeting.But i m talking when u knew mostly evrything abt eachother.Anybody there who donot think there is Difference b/w real frdship and net frdship ? meet me at some1rahul in messenger id

2007-02-03 20:27:56 · 2 answers · asked by rahul 2 in Singles & Dating

I was with some college friends gathering when a girl in the group (who kept checkinh me out the whole time)that I dont know told one of my female friends that I am a DJ,
is that a good thing or not?
and what that means?
there was no music or anything related to DJ!
what that mean?

2007-02-03 20:24:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 20:24:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I love my fiance a lot.We were planning to get married in the end of 2007.But due to some unavoidable circumstances all our plans are shattered.But thats not the problem.Now a days we fight a lot when we talk.I dont know what the problem is but he is always getting irritated with me.I tried to share my thoughts with him but I realised that due to my sharing he became more angry.In his anger he even asked me to leave him if Im not satisfied with him.He said lots of things which hurt me.But i thought maybe his work pressures have taken toll on him.I try to talk to him calmly but I am not getting his loving and caring words.he talks too harshly now.When i asked him what the problem is he said that he is the same like before only i am feeling wrong about him and blaming him.I dont know what to do to stop all this.i really love him and want his love.im very disturbed please help me.
p.s.his sister went through a very disturbing phase of her life a month ago.

2007-02-03 20:22:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy friend of mine has gotten 0-r-a-l from me twice when we fooled around. We also did it very quick one time (he c@me in 1 minute - so it was quick) It was fun but I dont feel comfortable doing stuff like that outside of dating a guy. (Ive only slept with one other man before this)
I like him but I want to tell him that Im only happy doing 0-r-a-l with a guy Im dating. And that although I think he's a cool friend we'd have to be dating for me to ever do that again.
Shall I just explain it plainly to him ?
Say sorry 0-R-A-L is reserved for guys whom Im dating not just casual with ?

2007-02-03 20:17:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm extremely frustrated right now with my marriage, We have been married for 6 years, we only dated for 3 months before we got engaged (she got pregnant, I felt like I should propose) right before we got married she had a miscarriage, but I felt I should get married anyways. Even after the first year I felt like I made a mistake and shouldn't have gotten married, I think she is a great person, but can't get the thought out of my head that she isn't right for me. Over the years the feeling is getting worse and worse. Right now we have no kids, and I'm afraid to bring kids into this, but she is talking about it. Our sex life is non existant and I feel like we are more roommates than anything. We have very little in common, and most of our conversation revolves around our dog, nothing personal, no deep connection. I don't know what else to do, we have tried counseling but feels like nothing has changed except costing money! I feel numb to everything. Please advise.

2007-02-03 20:17:57 · 11 answers · asked by Bruce D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was told that its not so feminine to do so but isnt laughing juz an appreciation of good humour? muz there be a sound barrier for laughter to redeem it an acceptable laughter?

2007-02-03 20:15:53 · 20 answers · asked by fizadora 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 20:15:41 · 4 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Family

like tell me what sort O f symtons I would have etc talking loudly or whatever!!!

2007-02-03 20:15:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well theres this GUY name Luis.well were been friends for along time now.And i've alwayz liked him.And he knows.but idk!he tells me he likes me to and can be mean sometimes.and he can make me CRY!but i still like him.idk what to do?should i move on?he tells me he LOVES me but i kno he doesn't.and it doesn't help he lie.Hes older then me but just a year!he said he won't go out with me cuz of that.but he still acts like he likes me and thats what drives me crayz.O hes really HOTT!!!He alwayz hugs me and bugs me but what should i do!!

2007-02-03 20:13:57 · 11 answers · asked by Renee 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm curious to know how guys will know if a gal is still a virgin?? Can list down all the possible facts???

2007-02-03 20:10:18 · 16 answers · asked by no name 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm bad with words. Tomorrow night at her place will be the opportunity to ask the question. What should I say?

2007-02-03 20:09:10 · 12 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with a girl days ago and I thought she fell in love with me too. We have been going like that for months...But then, I realized she was only using me for her benifits (she told me that she didnt love me and she saidd she only befriended me because i help her in certain things)...Today, i am falling in love her best friend, I felt exactly the same way as i did with the first girl...Will i give this new relationship a chance? Or ill just end up making the same mistakes? Help! :(

2007-02-03 20:07:23 · 10 answers · asked by camerlengo 2 in Singles & Dating

I haven't come across hardly any men who don't just try to tell me things I want to hear.

2007-02-03 20:06:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 20:05:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am older than 18 and I've never had a valentine. throughout high school guys liked me but never gave me anything or ask me to be their valentine. i feel like im not worthy enough to be anyone's valentine. any ideas on what i can do to feel better?

2007-02-03 20:05:10 · 15 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Singles & Dating

I am married for 2.5 yrs and want divorce. its an arranged marriage and imcompatiable. But she is very submissive and do not like it. I rather go for the divorce now that we do not have kids than later. I do not want to hurt her in the process and am okay if she hates me. do not know how to approach the matter and how could i get divorce

2007-02-03 20:01:07 · 21 answers · asked by kokotamu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex and i purchased a big screen, then we broke up and we had agreed to each split the bill even though i will be keeping the tv. well when time came to pay up he changed it to he 'll be making payments instead of just going ahead and paying his share off. so we can just be done with this. he has the money but he just wants to drag this out. i have my share but im not paying it all until he comes up with all of his, because its in his name. he may back out on paying. well he keeps calling me talking about it and i just want this over with. he could have been payed it off but he just wants a reason to hang on. i also met a new guy and i feel more peace but taking it slow. my ex was very mean and ignored me thru out the relationship. i just think he will keep bothering me. how do i move pass this and forget him. once he pays his share we agreed to i dont have to talk to him anymore. what would you do in a situation like this?

2007-02-03 20:00:26 · 11 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

i m 24 m from italy,i m very romance and&dream sience i was child a beautiful girl to love.share life, have babies,have love story
but i want a woman love and desire me same strong i do
because i love to love and be loved in the same time same stength

i love too much
i desire all female body from head to feet
i desire womanly feet and legs
i have very high sex drive ( women have low testseron- the fuel of desire)
i hv lots of fantasies
i love woman's clothes with her sweat smell
i am very visual
i am totally hetasexual&find same sex stuff disgusting for me( most women fantasize about eachothers)
i am very emotional&romantic , i am interested in poem ,giving flowers,have a dinner with candels,have sex in empty place at beach under the moon , i will worship her,die for her,she will be all my life
so pls ladies can i find a woman like me love and desire me to that limit
very romantic,visual,horney..etc or women are less thn us in libedo,visual,fetishes,hetasexual,romance?

2007-02-03 19:59:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

personallly, i lurve being a girl especially when it comes to all da many varities we can play around wit our hair, da different types of clothes we can choose from and flirting around!

2007-02-03 19:58:02 · 11 answers · asked by fizadora 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-03 19:57:08 · 22 answers · asked by in_da_skateboarder 1 in Singles & Dating