I am older than 18 and I've never had a valentine. throughout high school guys liked me but never gave me anything or ask me to be their valentine. i feel like im not worthy enough to be anyone's valentine. any ideas on what i can do to feel better?
2007-02-03 20:05:10 · 15 answers · asked by truth hurts 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how about this. why dont you take the intiative and ask someone to be your valentine?
2007-02-03 20:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am also 18 and never had a real valentine. iv had alot of friendship valentines but no really love valentines or that special someone. i know how you feel. but honestly valentines day is just a hallmark holiday and you just dont have that special someone during the certain part of the month in febuary. dont think your not worthy enough, take yourself seriously and dont let things get to you like that...
2007-02-03 20:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by Blazin Arrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have spent many via myself. I have probable loved them best. No expectancies to get enable down. i purchase my personal chocolate and ought to sit around the residing house in sweats listening to Enya. I take warm luxury baths surrounded with candles. After years of this self-pampering, I gained't percentage Valentine's Day with purely everybody, both. Oh, and that i'm 40-one and were given married on Valentine's Day. Our legal Separation grow to be signed on February 15 numerous years later.
2016-12-03 10:38:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're definately worthy. Happy Valentine's Day early. I'm sorry that has happened to you. It is just a commercialized, silly holiday, but I know it means a lot to women and I understand how it could hurt someone. Please do not take it to heart. It does NOT reflect on your value as a person. Every day tell yourself the good things about yourself until you believe and realize that they are true. God made you and he doesn't make junk. Remember that.
2007-02-03 20:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had a valentine either! But it really doesn't bother me, because i know that i'm not looking to be in a relationship at the moment.
2007-02-03 20:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome aboard! I'm 21 and never had a valentine. I'm still looking forward to it though. Hope my first valentine would be very special! Lol. But it doesn't bother me much because it's more fun celebrating valentines with friends who are at the same boat as you, lol.
2007-02-03 20:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 32 and never had a valentine. You are not the only one
2007-02-03 20:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by bigdino74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heh. I'm in the same boat. Alcohol usually helps. Mind-numbing video games, if you can't get that.
And in response to the one person above: It's not having a valentine that matters. It's being asked.
2007-02-03 20:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by answerator 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friends. Someone will come eventually to be your valentine. Happy Valentines day(kinda)
2007-02-03 20:09:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't got a valentine either.Dont feel bad.
2007-02-03 20:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by Crysta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 13, never had a valentine and i'm happy with this only!! 'cause i only thing of one boy, he's 16, lives in a different state, i know there is very lil' chance to get in touch with him. still, i think of him and continue living a joyful life! :)
2007-02-03 20:09:19 · answer #11 · answered by nomad.queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋