my ex and i purchased a big screen, then we broke up and we had agreed to each split the bill even though i will be keeping the tv. well when time came to pay up he changed it to he 'll be making payments instead of just going ahead and paying his share off. so we can just be done with this. he has the money but he just wants to drag this out. i have my share but im not paying it all until he comes up with all of his, because its in his name. he may back out on paying. well he keeps calling me talking about it and i just want this over with. he could have been payed it off but he just wants a reason to hang on. i also met a new guy and i feel more peace but taking it slow. my ex was very mean and ignored me thru out the relationship. i just think he will keep bothering me. how do i move pass this and forget him. once he pays his share we agreed to i dont have to talk to him anymore. what would you do in a situation like this?
2007-02-03 20:00:26 · 11 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i told him i would pay it off. why all the name calling in here. geez. he insist he is paying his share.
2007-02-03 20:12:33 · update #1
my friend is in a situation like this and you know what you should do : TELL HIS *** OFF tell him its over and he needs to do what he said and pay his share
that's my advice.
2007-02-03 20:06:20 · answer #1 · answered by [[♥case-face♥]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Option 1: Let him have the tv and the full bill; you have your life and a peace of mind.
Option 2: Pay off everything and keep the tv; you lower his ego to an extent he wont have the balls to ask anything 4rm you.
Option 3: Let the bill stand, after all its in his name; he'll hate u for the shi* u put him through.
Goodluck, but also be consdiderate.
2007-02-03 20:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by Another face in the crowd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For goodness sake it is just a TV. If you want the guy out of your life take out a loan and pay the thing off. You will have less stress that way and anyway why should he pay it off if you are keeping it?
2007-02-03 20:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is in his name, he cannot back out on paying for it at some point. I would insist that the two of you go and pay it off. And honeslty, I'd let him take the tv. I wouldn't want even that tie to him.
2007-02-03 20:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wrap the big screen up, call the movers and have it delivered to the ex's house. It's in his name, he can pay for it, and he can have it. What's worth more, a TV, or your peace of mind?
2007-02-03 22:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide if the big screen TV is worth the hassle of dealing with him. If not... send it back to him. Its in his name anyway and if he really gets ugly he has legal rights to it despite any verbal agreements you might have made.
If it is worth it... take him to small claims court for his part of the cost of the TV.
Then change your phone number and have it unlisted.
2007-02-03 20:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by bakfanlin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call the place where you got the t.v.from and have them to pick it up that way you nor him will have to pay for it.And you won't have to deal with him again.Or you can can tell him to come and get it.and just purchase a t.v. on your on.If you are no longer with him why do you want to hold on to a t.v. that is in his name if you want it to be over with?Or you can just have the t.v.put in your name if you can't part with it.
2007-02-03 20:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Block his number. It will just be like you are not there to pick up the phone on his end.
2007-02-03 20:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by JAMI E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the love of god, get rid of him. if he's doing it now, he's not gonna stop. trust me. it's been 2 years since my ex and i broke up and he still tries to talk to me. just get him out of your life completely. it's for the best, trust me.
2007-02-03 20:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR DUMB why make him pay for it! Your keeping it.. God your a gold digger. Block his number and pay for the tv yourself.
2007-02-03 20:06:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋