Family & Relationships - 3 February 2007

I was dating a 21 year old recently (I'm 37). It was just a thing. In the heat of the moment, he said "Did you ever think you'd get ****** by a 21 year old?" How stupid. I was 21 once, and was dating people my age then. Just words of wisdom folks...don't blow it at the last moment (no pun intended)...

2007-02-03 22:18:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had a guy come visit me, lately its been more frequent. He's 8 years younger than me. I've always been attracted to him and he makes me laugh and feel alive. We finally kissed and oh my god..... he's too rough and even left me with a kinked neck. How can I get him to kiss softer and passionately without sounding like a b---h.?

2007-02-03 22:17:23 · 7 answers · asked by hot single mom 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 22:16:52 · 8 answers · asked by ? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please don't say "you'll just know"

Having doubts about his feelings, is a bad sign; but I do have doubts! And it is a bad sign! I KNOW! :s

It's just sometimes you want to be sure.. Everyone needs evidence..

And this is my question..

What are the things that make you feel sure..?

E.g.:
- Does he have to buy a flower everyday?
- Call off all his plans just once for me?
- Fight with a guy that's been bugging me?
- Write love letters?

WHAT IS THAT THING that makes you say "this guy, he really loves me.."

I hope the answer isn't "every guy has his own way.."

2007-02-03 22:16:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can you name describe an incident indicating how close you are with your family?

2007-02-03 22:13:19 · 12 answers · asked by cherrielicker 1 in Family

My girl friend and I like to kiss a lot, but she told me that I just never do it perfectly. Girls, is there a spacific way that girls want to be kissed? I need some tips!

2007-02-03 22:13:17 · 9 answers · asked by Remember The Name 1 in Singles & Dating

i've noticed this... some guys i know are perfectly nice when they're just with me... but act totally weird and hardly pay any attention when they are with their friends.. why is this??

2007-02-03 22:12:31 · 11 answers · asked by I'm insane 3 in Singles & Dating

my stepmum and my dad have been married for a year and she always been quite friendly but she keeps walking into the bathroom when im in the shower, its a bit embarrising as the other day she came in and used the tiolet whilst i was in the room which made me aroused and she noticed this and opened her legs for me to see her. i think she playing games what should i do? i dont wanna hurt dad but i become aroused whenever i see her now and she knows it?? help

2007-02-03 22:12:21 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we are both about 50. we really hit off and what was supposed to be a quick meeting for a coffee and we ended up being together until 10-30pm. i couldn't sleep all night, i have a tingling sensation through my body and feel like i am a teenager again.
is this is love at first site and How long before i should tell her?

2007-02-03 22:11:49 · 6 answers · asked by curlyloxx 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 22:10:22 · 3 answers · asked by mhrhashemi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I lost a bet to my girlfriend. Now she owns me forever. I have become her little slave. I have do everything for her. She makes me tie her shoes, carry her books, brush her hair, clean her shoes, be her foot rest, buy her lunch, etc. I have no big problem with this. She is a loving person. It's just that I lost. Has your girlfriend ever done this to you? (Girls, have you ever done this to your boy friend)?

2007-02-03 22:09:48 · 10 answers · asked by Remember The Name 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 22:09:38 · 8 answers · asked by Janice M 2 in Singles & Dating

If u can be a true friend, then i'm here, I'm 14 and an Indian.
Please tell u'r id if u'r interested.

2007-02-03 22:08:24 · 4 answers · asked by art 2 in Friends

Hello everyone, please don't answer me like"Then, ask your hubby directly." Let say, you are psychologist, how do you analyze whether my hubby really loves me or not though we argue at times.Recently, my hubby told me that if he had chance to get to know me after life, he still wants to marry me, but next time, he likes to marry me in his 20's, not in his 30's.

2007-02-03 22:07:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i would like to share the situation im facing in life right now and it is all coz i chose a girl of my choice n she according to my mother and family has many flaws (which i don consider as flaws but a rough fate in life that girl went thru).she married once when she was 18 n the marriage lasted for a year coz her ex happened to b the exact opposite and used her jus for fun and then treated her real bad.it's been two years since i hav known her, she is in india and i am in kuwait.i opted to work for an uncle of mine in kuwait as i thought i could make a lil money soon n work out the divorce and marry her n settle down in life.mum found out about this girls past recently and now she jus won't let me marry her.im in my uncle's firm now and even my salary has been deducted to a very big extent n i don hav any freedom anymore, no friends n not even a cell phone.all orders from my mum to keep me away from this girl even though we r worlds apart.i want to get bak to her as soon as possible.

2007-02-03 22:06:07 · 11 answers · asked by tonal syndrome 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-03 22:05:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-03 22:01:38 · 25 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-03 21:59:33 · 10 answers · asked by ? 5 in Friends

My sister has just recently got married and aquired 2 sons? Are these children now classed as my full blown nephews or nephews in law, or something else?

2007-02-03 21:54:32 · 10 answers · asked by kim t 2 in Family

she's 21 and he's 34. they meet at the same time everyday and talk for more than 2 hours. they don't really sweet talk each other. they talk about each other's lives, what happened for the day, each other's parents, friends, bros, and sis, interests and they do have a lot in common, when we are together shopping and it's time for them to talk she would say, we gotta go home. then there was a time she goes on night shift so she couldn't make it for how many weeks talking to him, she didn't inform him or anything why she couldn't be there but he sends her emails and they're they go talking again about each other. im really just wondering? do you think there could be a possibility that they will fall in love with each other granting their age gap?? or what is your opinion? what do you think is in what they have together if they have something?? could they really just be friends? what's your opinion? anything?

2007-02-03 21:50:03 · 12 answers · asked by terra 4 in Singles & Dating

ok heres my situation i'm from london u.k shes from india mumbai her parents want 2 get her married 2 someone else and we are in love we want 2 be together her parents will not listen my parents are supportive but wat i wanted 2 know is whether it is agianst the law or not were both 18 plus but i acctually need 2 be 21 to marry her which i'm not financially were safe its abt de law (india law although i'm a british citizen) so i'd like 2 knw is it legal 2 live on our own together pls help me pls

2007-02-03 21:49:26 · 5 answers · asked by mostwanted_heartbeat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-03 21:49:20 · 4 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am searching for a friend that lived in Texas but might be in Florida now. I have gone to some of the people searches and they were not that helpful and always want you to pay for something.
Please let me know of any searches!!!

2007-02-03 21:46:04 · 2 answers · asked by sara 2 in Friends

2007-02-03 21:45:14 · 3 answers · asked by k4zzi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

After sending a very harsh complaining email to my bf, I got him really upset..

I said things like why can't we take our relationship a small step further (since it’s been two years); why don't we go out as much, and why has he stopped calling me like he used to.. I did not compare him with any other person, I didn't even swear, there was just a lot of heavy duty complaining (all piled-up in one email) everything I never had the guts to say to his face I said in the email..

Just not the in the same way I’m saying it now..

He wouldn't answer my calls and he barely replied to my text messages. Perhaps I shocked him.. He was just totally ignoring me.. Note: whether you believe it or not, I called him about 40 times, with at least 10 messages.. I was really sorry for what I did.. I just wanted to say I was.. He wouldn't even give me that chance..

I began to cry.. I just felt really bad..

Do I have the right to get frustrated? Or did I disserve this?

Should I still call?

2007-02-03 21:39:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You tell a single guy who you know he's interested in you that you have a feeling for him.
-He tells you he's involved with another woman right now
-However, within 2 minutes he says: BUT it's "not" too serious & such these cases just come and go in your life

- Is he really interested in having a relationship with you???????????

2007-02-03 21:38:58 · 11 answers · asked by ELK 1 in Singles & Dating

everyone says me and my boyfriend are the worst couple ever beacause "im amazingly beautiful and hes so freakin ugly" then also say "you can do so much better!" but, i really dont want to! i love him and honestly the last thing i care about is looks...i look at personality first. What should i do?

2007-02-03 21:36:41 · 15 answers · asked by lanny s 1 in Singles & Dating

photos uploaded and looking for 'discreet' relationship, 'one on one' etc.
He acts like we are fine, we live together (9 years). I found his password and 'handle' written down. He must have forgotten to hide it. Now I find myself searching his cell phone calls and looking at the Internet history. I do not know what to think. To top it off, he has accused me of screwing around when I have been 100% faithful from day 1! What do you think? Also, we live as we are married, share finances, food, hs is mine and mine is his, no questions.

2007-02-03 21:36:10 · 18 answers · asked by Adrian 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-03 21:34:45 · 5 answers · asked by chunky 1 in Singles & Dating

Actually wen he is not in front of me i feel like kissing him but wen i see him ifeel shy but he says me to try once wat to do?i even dont kno how to do it.....

2007-02-03 21:34:45 · 23 answers · asked by pakistani 1 in Singles & Dating