Please don't say "you'll just know"
Having doubts about his feelings, is a bad sign; but I do have doubts! And it is a bad sign! I KNOW! :s
It's just sometimes you want to be sure.. Everyone needs evidence..
And this is my question..
What are the things that make you feel sure..?
E.g.:
- Does he have to buy a flower everyday?
- Call off all his plans just once for me?
- Fight with a guy that's been bugging me?
- Write love letters?
WHAT IS THAT THING that makes you say "this guy, he really loves me.."
I hope the answer isn't "every guy has his own way.."
2007-02-03 22:16:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will know he loves you when you notice that he cares for you, and that means he suffers if you are suffering, he is happy if you are happy, he understands you, he gives up on his time for you, he gives up on a lot of things that would be better for him because of you…
I don’t have details, but I have being reading your questions and some of your answers, and I think:
-Your boyfriend don’t loves you like he should, find someone you truly love and that truly loves you, its better alone than with someone that don’t truly loves you and only causes you suffering.
-You are a good person, and what happens to good people in this evil cruel World is that they become unhappy and depressed(you are depressed, try to avoid medication and if you have to don’t use too much and don’t get addicted), because people are SELFISH and insensitive.
-Have long term goals on your life that be beneficiate YOURSELF, sleep well(Anti-depressive), eat well(Anti-depressive), educate yourself, find hobbies(Anti-depressive), do a sport you like(Anti-depressive), get another job if you are very unhappy with current work, don’t drink and don’t smoke, improve your relation with family members; as long as you don’t do wrong to other people you should feel good with yourself, it takes time but eventually you will find strength to face life in a more positive way(but it takes TIME).
TAKE CARE!
2007-02-03 23:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by f_vidigal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
he does not need to prove you that he loves you and nor do you.
When you meet a guy you should sense 'magic' and only then can you say 'yes! he is the one' . I know you desperate, just share your feelings withsomeone who can understand you really well, this will really help if nothing else.
2007-02-04 06:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by nikita r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...here is how I know my boyfriend loves me. Maybe there will be something in here that helps you.
He tells me every day how much he loves me.
He tells me that he has waited his entire life for me.
I catch him looking at me when we are just watching tv and he has a look in his eyes that just speaks volumes.
He smiles when he sees me coming to him in the airport.
When we first get together he holds me so close it is like he doesn't want to let me go.
He does sweet little things for me like opening doors and buying my favorite coffee.
He sends me letters, e-mails, cards, and love songs.
He tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.
That is how I know my boyfriend loves me.
The big thing for me, is the look in his eyes.
2007-02-04 06:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's there when you need him & has a little time on his hand even when he's really really busy. he does little things for you that makes u feel special like buying you that bear u mentioned 3 months ago that u thought was really cute. little things like that grow to the bigger "love" picture. =]
2007-02-04 06:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will feel it in the way he talks to you, listens to you, looks at you, and he tells you he thinks about you all the time basically , he shows you.
2007-02-04 06:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by bckatcha! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you can't be suspicious everytime he says he loves you. He shouldn't have to prove it to you with every breath. Don't be so insecure.
2007-02-04 06:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by Olivia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
madam doubt full your entire life will not tell u he loves u still.
2007-02-04 06:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by KOHLI V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋