why does my stepmum keep walking in when im in the shower, why is she playing games?

Question

my stepmum and my dad have been married for a year and she always been quite friendly but she keeps walking into the bathroom when im in the shower, its a bit embarrising as the other day she came in and used the tiolet whilst i was in the room which made me aroused and she noticed this and opened her legs for me to see her. i think she playing games what should i do? i dont wanna hurt dad but i become aroused whenever i see her now and she knows it?? help

Answer 1

Ask your dad if she likes anal.

Answer 2

You should lock the door so that this doesn't keep happening. Also you need to stop getting aroused by this, remember she is your step mum and she is with your dad and due to this nothing can happen between the two of you.

The other thing you could do is when all three of you are together, just drop it into conservation with your dad, but so that she hears, that you think that you need to get the lock on the bathroom door fixed, because you don't know if your step mum mentioned it, but she accidentally walked in on you when you were in the bathroom. I think that you should mention something like this now, just in case she starts telling your dad that she believes that you fancy her. Just stop her game, before its starts and be on your guard

Answer 3

Tell Dad his girl is out of control
Bath time is your time lock the bathroom door if possible take all your stuff inside and use the facility...I would tell Dad because if she is in to you or your friends she needs to be checked...Good she is not your real MOM and try to get an handle on your arousel and for your sake bring a girl to the house to just show here you have a girl... Get some of the fellas not to come over so much... I think you are wise not to act on your physical attraction...A year O she can bounce...If you know what I mean...Tell DAD

Answer 4

If you let your dad know, Trouble; she will deny it and turn the tables against you and then you are out.

If you don't tell your dad and if you don't give in to her either, Trouble again; when she gets upset and frustrated, she will start telling lies about you to your dad, and it would not matter what you say, your dad will believe her and chuck you out.

If you give in, Terrible Terrible Trouble, nothing stays secret for ever. And when your dad finds out, you are both out, unless she can convince him that you raped her, which she probably will try to do.

Solution: See the nearest elderly priest in your area, even if you don't attend his church, and confide in him. He will know how to help you out. There are other equally qualified persons in your area like the Social Welfare, Counsellers, your Doctor,the head of the local police, etc who can handle the situation tacfully so that no one is embarrassed. Don't do anything stupid. Good Luck.

Answer 5

Well she sounds like a dirty b i t c h doing this to her own stepson. Tell your Dad you want to put a lock on the bathroom door coz she's walked in on you in the shower and that your embarrassed. If he wont put one on and she keeps coming in then tell your Dad again and say how she opened her legs for you to see her you know what!

Answer 6

It would have been helpful to tell us how old you are.
If this woman is doing these things on purpose to tease you, your dad didn't marry a very nice person, and although it's not your place to tell him,I think you should talk to your dad, if you don't want to tell him the whole truth fine, just tell him it's embarrassing,he should ask her to stop walking on you, I also think you should ask for a lock on that door.
Just keep close to your dad, because depending on her game she might decide to create problems between you two.

Answer 7

For my first toddler bathe my mom bought a number of those tiny plastic little ones and iced up them in ice cubes. Then each and every centred visitor were given one of their drink and the first man or woman that had their toddler thoroughly emerge from the ice dice yelled "my water broke" and then they were given somewhat prize. At my sister's bathe we performed the garments line sport. We set up a rope, gave 2 human beings a doll, a telephone, a pile of toddler outfits, and garments pins. We set the timer and both human beings had to carry on a pretend verbal change on the phone, even as keeping the toddler, and putting up the the garments. Whoever were given the most outfits hung up even as the time ran out received a prize. truly one of my favorites...everyone receives a piece of paper and they write down a question that a mom-to-be may have. for instance: "How frequently do i modify the toddler's diaper?". Then the paper is folded over and exceeded to the fellow next to them, who can't examine what the different human being wrote as their question. They then write down a piece of advice or the answer to the question they positioned on their paper. the mum-to-be then reads each and each and every paper and they are only about continually hilarious because each and every from time to time they make experience, and frequently they don't. celebration: "How frequently do i modify the toddler's diaper"....answer: enable them cry it out or you'll spoil them". the mum-to-be then receives to %. her renowned paper and both those that wrote the question and answer get a prize.

Answer 8

Try to avoid being in such situations- get a lock on the door. You really don't want to be in a situation from which you cannot return. I hope for your Dad's sake that she isn't playing games.

Answer 9

you don't say how old you are, but what your step mum is doing is not right and it could constitute abuse. You should feel safe in your home not afraid. I know you want to protect your dad, but think of the hurt it would cause him if he realised you were being abused by her. If in doubt ring childline or tell a teacher. But most of all don't let your step mum continmue to get away with what she's doing she knows its wrong

Answer 10

i think you should invite her in to take a shower with you..if she sits down to take a leak ...start rubbing your you know what and let her watch....ask if she wants it and shake it at her...maybe ask her if you can do some oral on her or how about 69 with her...no really if its true talk to your dad about putting a lock on the door or fixing the one that s there

Answer 11

dang it... shes not your mum is she oedipus?

look, you have no choices here..she wants you, and in my experience, what women want, they get.

and for gods sake DONT TELL YOUR DAD... not only will he go ballistic, but it'll end your relationship as father and son. and itll probably do the same for his marriage...

monogamy is rare these days.. the days of the blood on the wedding dday bedsheet is long gone... but its infidelity if shes whoring around..and utter madness and no doubt a little bit of self destruct if she whoring with you, her stepson.

if your american theres probably a law against it... if your English, make sure you use a condom...