I've had a guy come visit me, lately its been more frequent. He's 8 years younger than me. I've always been attracted to him and he makes me laugh and feel alive. We finally kissed and oh my god..... he's too rough and even left me with a kinked neck. How can I get him to kiss softer and passionately without sounding like a b---h.?
2007-02-03 22:17:23 · 7 answers · asked by hot single mom 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should talk to him.
Open up the problem , but don't sound
like a mother scolding a kid.
I think being honest is the best way.
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2007-02-03 22:21:20 · answer #1 · answered by N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show him how you like to be kissed. He may have been rough because he was so excited to be kissing you. You don't have to come off as a b...h. Just back off when he gets rough and intiate it slowly. He should get the message. If he doesn't, just sweetly tell him that you really like slow romantic kisses. You don't have to put down his style this way.
2007-02-04 06:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Show him the ropes. Be honest and let him know that he's to rough. If I make a mistake, I wan't to know. Who wouldn't?
2007-02-04 06:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by 444 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ohh I'm sorry bad kissers are the worst. you can just tell him or teach him, but really if he's not a natural good kisser he won't change that much
2007-02-04 06:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Teach him...show him how you want to be kissed and walk him through it...practice makes perfect.
2007-02-04 06:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by Roxie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tie him up first
And wax your lips, he's wrigglin around cause they chafe his tongue.
2007-02-04 06:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by satnee2003 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just say "Let's try it this way............and smooch away!!! :)
2007-02-04 06:21:04 · answer #7 · answered by j b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋