i've noticed this... some guys i know are perfectly nice when they're just with me... but act totally weird and hardly pay any attention when they are with their friends.. why is this??
2007-02-03 22:12:31 · 11 answers · asked by I'm insane 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, they do act differently; in fact, they take on this collective personality that is almost prankish, bully-ish and immature. I don't know what kind of macho thing comes over guys where they have to prove themselves in front of each other, but I don't think it is their authentic selves. I was in a restaurant with my daughter and a group of teenage guys was at a table harrassing the waiter, acting obnoxious, and rude. I couldn't help but think if any one of them had been at that table with their families or with a girlfriend they would have acted in a different way. So, I end this speech not knowing why they act differently in a PACT, but they do!!! We should bust them on it and call them out when they are "acting out" with their buddies. They know what they are doing and they know it is phoney and obnoxious!
2007-02-03 22:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecurities. If this bothers you, find a man that is more secure and isn't always trying to impress his friends or acts like something they aren't in social situations. Then again, you could just take it as a compliment. Men act like boys around other boys.
2007-02-03 22:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't all act that way...just the immature ones who don't have enough self esteem to admit they like a girl without their "boys" approval.When a guy REALLY likes you,it won't matter who's around.
2007-02-03 22:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They wanna act cool around their friends.. so they act like jerks. My guy friends do the same thing, same with my cousins.
2007-02-03 22:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by Rae-Rae Nikkoles <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell you this, but that are acting normal with there friends, its when they are with you that they try to act nice, which is the actual weird thing.
2007-02-03 22:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are in basic terms extraordinary, there is not any accounting for it. tell him to provide up appearing so creepy around you or in any different case to leave you on my own. If he's in basic terms going to be your chum, there are limitations he needs to maintain, if he needs extra, he might desire to debate it with you, no longer in basic terms randomly attempt to touch your boobs. the two way, you may desire to talk to him approximately this, tell him to maintain his distance and desist with the creepiness. If he needs to no longer comply, keep away from him as much as conceivable.
2016-10-01 09:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're just out playing and trying to act hard. Pathetic, ain't it?
2007-02-03 22:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by lou b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they just want to take it one at a time like "this time im with my friend", and "this time im with my girl".. but if you are certain that it's definitely something you can call as "taking you forgranted" then if he's your bf you guys should sit down and talk about it.. but it pays if you'll be patient for a while.. looks like he's just maybe having some time with his friends..
2007-02-03 22:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by terra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they have to act tough around their guy friends
2007-02-03 22:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by angel_lips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just because we are guys we like to show off its out nature and its in our blood
2007-02-03 22:17:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋