I was dating a 21 year old recently (I'm 37). It was just a thing. In the heat of the moment, he said "Did you ever think you'd get ****** by a 21 year old?" How stupid. I was 21 once, and was dating people my age then. Just words of wisdom folks...don't blow it at the last moment (no pun intended)...
2007-02-03 22:18:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I bet you really felt you came face to face with an immature kid at that moment.
2007-02-03 22:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this, but you're 16 years older than this kid, and yes, I said "kid". He's apparently got the maturity of a 12 year old, by the sound of it. Not to mention a gutter mouth.
My question is this :
First of all, are you not offended by what he said to you? OR is this normally how you allow someone to talk to you when you sleep with him? You were not even the least bit ticked off by his disrespect of you? Basically, he just cheapened you, and what you two did!
It suprises me that the only word you could come up with was "stupid".
If you're still seeing this kid, then that surely makes me wonder some more!
I'm with the other lady who posted on here....you pretty much deserved what you got. I cannot imagine why you can't date someone closer to your own age, and who is more mature. IF you date those still in puberty, and those who have the maturity of a child, like this one apparently does, you pretty much can't complain about how they're going to act. I think you need to quit robbing the cradle, and find someone closer to your age.
2007-02-03 22:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by C J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 06:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my chick used to tell me I was to quiet in the sack, then when I would say something she would question it as if I wanted to have a conversation or repeat myself, she would say what? and it killed the moment so I then decided to ever say anything again. So I say nothing even when they want me to talk its always a possibility one word could ruin the moment, so I guess your right.
2007-02-03 22:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats why you shouldn't date 21 year olds.
2007-02-03 22:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a question....but anyway chicks are Hos just looking for the biggest meat they can find.
By the way, he's 21. What did you expect....maturity. You got what you deserve.
2007-02-03 22:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by Buddy Love 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a bit of an idiot to me (no offence but saying things like that is really a put-down)
2007-02-03 22:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by h0axsp1d0r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lucky 21 year old.
2007-02-03 22:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to sound harsh but,
that guys is an idiot! He should be
sensitive enough.Doesn't he have a brain?!
2007-02-03 22:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to worry about passionate statements and i have to be on my guard all the time, you wouldnt be the one for me...ever think it was a joke....my god lighten up. life isnt that serious.
2007-02-03 22:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋