I met a great girl, online...about 6 or 7 months ago...we both really liked eachother but I had issues meeting with someone I met from the internet. I was worried about what people might think, she eventually got fed up and said that "she has to let go". That was yesterday. I was in such a state I opened up and my parents said to me that all along it shouldnt have mattered how we met...but that we met. It's like the curse is lifted, opening up has just made me not care about opinions of others and just go and see her, but I don't know how to take the next step to getting her back on my side. I'm so ready for it...ironically at the time she probably isn't, any help?...please...
2007-02-03 20:31:58 · 11 answers · asked by CJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would apologize to her for letting your fears get the best of you and ask her to give you a chance. She may not care anymore, but you should give it a shot. Good for you about not caring about how you met anymore. Your parents are right...the important thing is that you two met.
2007-02-03 20:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Send an email with the subject : "I was wrong...."
Which you now have come to realisation. Then write that you realise that your fear had blinded you from the truth, which is the special feelings that you have for each other. You have now come to terms with your fears to make room for all the possibilities that you two may share together.
And at the end of the email, say "I hope you can forgive me if I have caused you any pain. "
No need to say much anymore - see how she takes it.
Your parents are right - it doesn't matter how you two met. Meeting somebody online is just the complete opposite of meeting somebody at a bar. You know each other and love the things that you share in common. Then you meet physically and see if the chemistry is there. Meeting at a bar, you see if you have physical chemistry first, then get to know each other. Either way or the other, the physical chemistry AND the intimacy of getting to know each other still need to be met in order to see the relationship to the next level.
It doesn't matter.
I know. I was the one who flew from one continent to another to meet this special someone online. This was over 7 years ago.
We have been married for over six years.
Know the truth, not regrets.
Go get her.
2007-02-04 04:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by Nocturne_in_G_Major 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen. Giving you the benefit of the doubt, did you meet in person? If so, maybe you wouldn't have to rely on family opinion. Do you rely on others' opinions to shape your own, nornally? There are a lot of normal people looking for others on the internet. It's a common sense approach. If you were worried about what others might think, what were you doing in the first place?
2007-02-04 04:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by useyourhead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth, let her know you're no longer concerned w/ that and you'd really like to meet w/ her. Oh yeah and apologize for being such a baby.
2007-02-04 04:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jay K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've met loads of people from online, you just have to be very careful. start somewhere close to your home town, never meet them alone and make sure you have some friends on hand - just in case.
2007-02-04 04:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by maxine g 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try reaching her on the phone it's the best way to apologize to her.If she doesn't want to talk to you then leave it you can't do anything about it.
2007-02-04 04:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah. you were too worried. if you just calmed down, you wouldn't have let go of each other. meet with her again!!!
your parents are right!! it doesnt matter WHERE you met..it's YOU MET!!!
2007-02-04 04:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have u been honest n told her this. because she wont understand if u dont.
N of course she is going to be upset. she probably feels like uve been playing with her head.
2007-02-04 04:37:11 · answer #8 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-02-04 04:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by Emily W 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Wat ur parents said is true. And yes, u shouldn't be bothered by others opinions.
2007-02-04 04:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by Enchanted Butterfly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋