I treasure my relationship.Please tell me how to make it beautiful.?

Question

I love my fiance a lot.We were planning to get married in the end of 2007.But due to some unavoidable circumstances all our plans are shattered.But thats not the problem.Now a days we fight a lot when we talk.I dont know what the problem is but he is always getting irritated with me.I tried to share my thoughts with him but I realised that due to my sharing he became more angry.In his anger he even asked me to leave him if Im not satisfied with him.He said lots of things which hurt me.But i thought maybe his work pressures have taken toll on him.I try to talk to him calmly but I am not getting his loving and caring words.he talks too harshly now.When i asked him what the problem is he said that he is the same like before only i am feeling wrong about him and blaming him.I dont know what to do to stop all this.i really love him and want his love.im very disturbed please help me.
p.s.his sister went through a very disturbing phase of her life a month ago.

My fiance thinks that Im always tensed for our marriage.That is partly true coz even I think about our future and i feel its natural.He tells me that its not in our hands so leave it on time and destiny.

Answer 1

He is stressed over possibly many things. It also sounds like he may need sometime 2 him self. No doubt he's in love with U, he needs space 7 time to get things sorted out in his mind. It is possible he's not ready 2 make such a life changing commitment yet. If Ur having a hard time just talking that is a problem. Open communication is a must in a relationship. It also sounds like he is trying to push U away. Let time take it's course. If U think this is hard (& I know it is) it's nothing like the heart break of a bad marriage. Maybe u should talk 2 Ur friends & get their opinions too. DO NOT put Ur self in a position U will both regret. I hope this helps or gives U something 2 think about.

Answer 2

this happens after a while in a relationship, he's stressed. he wants to relax. there could be many reasons, he might not even want to be in a relationship with you anymore but thats unlikely. I think he's just stressed he needs some time to think or have some quiet time.